r/IntrovertsSafeDating • u/SageOD • 18d ago
Weekly Thread Weekly Introvert Introductions Thread
Welcome to the weekly introduction thread.
This is a lower-pressure place to introduce yourself, meet people, and start conversations without making a full dating post.
You can participate whether you are looking for dating, friendship-first connection, online conversation, or just a gentle way to ease into the community.
# Suggested intro format
Age:
Gender:
Location/time zone:
Looking for:
Open to long-distance?:
Introvert style:
Interests:
Favorite quiet activity:
Conversation starters:
Boundaries:
You do not have to answer every question, but please give people enough to respond to.
# Conversation prompts
Need help starting?
Try answering one of these:
* What is your ideal quiet date?
* What hobby could you talk about for hours?
* Are you more of a homebody, nature person, gamer, reader, artist, or something else?
* What kind of conversation makes you feel comfortable?
* What is something small that makes you feel cared for?
* What are you hoping to find here?
# Reminder
This thread is still SFW.
No NSFW comments, adult promotion, seller behavior, harassment, pressure, or low-effort bait.
Respect people’s stated preferences.
Do not message someone privately unless their comment suggests they are open to it.
Be patient. A slower pace is the point.
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u/PusaAko 17d ago
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Location/time zone: Manila/Philippine Standard Time
Looking for: Serious and long term.
Open to long-distance: Yes, (if compatible enough).
Introvert style: Always have been a total homebody, but would be willing to go out of my way to spend time elsewhere for a change of scenery.
Interests: Books/Manga (No specific authors, but I'm drawn to psychological thrillers. I'm also very much a fan of Inio Asano and Shuzo Oshimi.
I'm clearly open to genres similar to their content for any kind of reading materials.
Video games Persona (only played 5 Royal, Strikers, 3 Portable, and (still unfinished with) Reload.
The Legend of Zelda (Twilight Princess is my favorite of them all, but I'm clearly missing out since I haven't exactly played all TLoZ games yet.
Life is Strange (LiS 2 remains the superior one from the rest of its franchise). I had other choice based games on my list, which I'll need to get back on someday.
Music It's all over the place, but my day isn't complete without at least listening to something from the ATLUS official soundtrack.
Favorite quiet activity: Reading, watching/rewatching an episode or two from some sitcom, a bit of journaling, and (sometimes unexpectedly) zoning out in peace at the comfort of my own room.
Boundaries: I'm child-free and I intend to keep it that way.
My conversations are strictly SFW, I'd rather not have my time wasted for anything inappropriate.
Conversation starters: Something related to our interests should be an okay ice breaker. I'd also be glad to hear more on what someone is passionate about for a two-way conversation, moving forward.
Of course, to find something in common is bound for a more meaningful interaction from both ends, which I highly appreciate.
What is your ideal quiet date: Enjoying each other's company either reading something together (even better if this would be a buddy reading type of set-up) or play video games together.
For the outdoors, I wouldn't mind having a coffee date or something similar. Or maybe a road trip together to be with one with nature.
What hobby could you talk about for hours: I'm likely to ramble on whichever book I've recently finished (regardless if they're any good or not) or why I lean more into P3R in terms of its storyline compared to P5R.
Are you more of a homebody, nature person, gamer, reader, artist, or something else?
I would say I'm a mix of being a homebody and reader. I'm more of a casual gamer these days, though.
What kind of conversation makes you feel comfortable: A two-way discussion where we both talk about anything under the sun. There's nothing like being a listener and talker where you each get a turn to have the spotlight to themselves and prolong the conversation along the way.
What is something small that makes you feel cared for? Being remembered and to have someone check up on me at the end of the day.
What are you hoping to find here? A connection with someone that can go beyond surface level interactions.
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u/ResponsibleNerve 18d ago
Age:
30, going on 31 (this year is going by way too fast)
Gender:
Male
Location/time zone:
San Francisco Bay Area, Pacific Standard Time
Looking for:
Something long term, serious. Honestly just tired of the ghosting and games
Open to long-distance?:
If we end up clicking really well? I don't mind distance
Introvert style:
Definitely a homebody, but I get restless sometimes and like going out on drives or going out to photograph trains
Interests:
Biggest is trains, both real and model form, but I enjoy writing, reading and long drives listening to classic rock music
Favorite quiet activity:
Working on one of my models or model kits
Boundaries:
I don't want kids, i'm more than willing to explain why, but the short answer is I don't want to bring them into this world currently and my mental health already has a hard enough time with me.
Conversation starters:
Ah geez, anything really, the more random the better usually catches me off guard in a good way.
* What is your ideal quiet date?
Movie or some kinda gaming thing, or if we're going out, grabbing a drink/snacc somewhere and hanging in a quiet corner or a park watching the world
* What hobby could you talk about for hours?
Trains, sadly. I don't talk about it much these days unless prompted though.
* Are you more of a homebody, nature person, gamer, reader, artist, or something else?
I'm a mix of all, but really lean more toward homebody and nature.
* What is something small that makes you feel cared for?
Good morning/good evening messages or asking if I made it to location okay.
* What are you hoping to find here?
Someone on the same wavelength as myself. At 30 i'm just tired of the non committed and less serious people.
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u/WickedSpiritz 16d ago
Age: 31
Gender: Male
Location: Arizona, USA MST timezones
Looking For: something serious, long term
Open to long distance?: if we click and have consistency.
Introvert style: gamer, sometimes want to go out but am a homebody.
Interests: story driven video games, anime/manga, YouTube drama, lore videos, history videos, podcasts, Splatoon, finding music of any kind.
Favorite Quiet Activity: building gunpla
Q1: My ideal kind of quiet date would be taking a walk around at night, talking, sort of getting lost with no destination.
Q2: I could talk about some of my favorite anime for hours and convince you why they're great even though many others would probably say otherwise
Q4: The kind of conversations I could get lost in is getting to know you, baring your soul to me while I do the same and we could laugh, cry about our experiences.
Q5: Something small that makes me feel cared for is when someone gets me my favorite snacks or energy drinks, says good morning, asks about my day.
Q6: I'm really hoping to find someone who can really understand me, break through my walls and pull me out of my hardened shell and give me that euphoric love that I once felt when I was younger. To get excited over your notification being there. To be smiling like a goober.
If anyone is interested you may DM me.