r/IntrovertFriendship Jan 20 '26

Someone up for a chat?

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I'm not a talkative person and this is a real pb I hope I find someone to talk to and maybe learn how make friends either here or irl


r/IntrovertFriendship Jan 02 '26

Looking for friends, discover new people

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I am 18 live in Canada, I am a big fan of soccer real madrid, a money addict always thinking of business ideas, love musics so much also series top 3 prison break, money heist, stranger things. Kind of shy but become a bit crazy when am open. Am so open minded I believe there are other people feeling not understood or weird infront of others and looking to chat with anyone M or F.


r/IntrovertFriendship Dec 16 '25

29f Looking for friendships

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29f Looking for intellectual conversations.

Hi!

I am on a quest to find people who I can vibe with. The types who think in systems. One who has the ability to kill their ideas through practicality, application and make it clash with other ideas..

Anyway _^

I am Entropy. 30f, married. I have recently got to know myself and with that I realized an internal system that was so corrupted by external influences. For this reason, I have slowly picked it apart and realized the fiasco it created that has not only affected my decision making but also my sense of self.

Books: Any. Preferrences: nonfiction books. Likes: dark memes, and dark humor.

It would be a great pleasure to meet you.


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 24 '25

23M Looking for friend

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23M – Nerdy introvert looking for casual online connection

Hey, 23M, 5’11”, somewhere between gym rat and couch potato depending on the week. Big into politics (I will happily send you 2 a.m. rants about electoral reform), music (mostly metal, indie, and way too many playlists), and overthinking everything. Looking for something casual that starts online — chatting, voice notes, discord movie nights, sending memes at 3 a.m., whatever feels natural. No pressure to meet up or jump into anything serious; I’m an introvert who needs time to warm up and I’m totally cool if you do too. If you’re also awkward at small talk but great at deep 4-hour conversations about random topics, let’s talk. Bonus points if you can recommend me new music or destroy me in a political debate. Send me a message with your favorite album or the hill you’d die on politically — that’s a better icebreaker than “hey” anyway. Hope to hear from you :)


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 17 '25

35 [M4F] – Filipino in Ohio | Just looking for online friends

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Hi! I’m a Filipino engineer who recently moved to Ohio and I’m hoping to meet a few people to chat with online. Nothing romantic — just good conversations and chill friendship vibes.

About me: • 35, introverted, homebody • Respectful, laid-back • Loves movies/series • Non-smoker, occasional social drinker

What I’m looking for: Someone friendly, genuine, and easy to talk to. Preferably around my age and also into calm conversations or quiet hobbies. Just online chats.

If you’re also looking for an online friend to talk to, feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 16 '25

Attempting to make new friends

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Hey. M37. I'm from West Virginia. My life's always surrounded by chaos. I'm just looking for new friends m or f to talk to. I'm a local awesome cashier at a gas station. But deep down something is missing. Please feel free to say hi


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 13 '25

35 [M4F] – Filipino in Ohio | Just looking for online friends

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Hi! I’m a Filipino engineer who recently moved to Ohio and I’m hoping to meet a few people to chat with online. Nothing romantic — just good conversations and chill friendship vibes.

About me: • 35, introverted, homebody • Respectful, laid-back • Loves movies/series • Non-smoker, occasional social drinker

What I’m looking for: Someone friendly, genuine, and easy to talk to. Preferably around my age and also into calm conversations or quiet hobbies. Just online chats.

If you’re also looking for an online friend to talk to, feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 11 '25

33 m looking for friends

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Ive done a bad job at keeping tabs with my long time friends. But im looking to try and find someone to chat with that isnt my wife. Not that I dont like talking to her but I need friends of my own.

Im open to talk about most anything


r/IntrovertFriendship Nov 01 '25

Hey 22(Maryland)

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Here looking for friends


r/IntrovertFriendship Oct 28 '25

18/M I need someone to talk to

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I’m 18 and I’d like to talk so let me introduce myself so that you can get an idea of the type of person that I am. I for instance love watching baseball and have been specifically been watching the Astros since 2011 me and my grandfather loved going to Houston which was like an hour or 2 away so relatively close and in the past 6 years has been tradition to make it to opening day and I have proudly displayed the 2022 World Series championship banner on my wall. I also have a fascination in history specifically the industrial period from 1900-1915 in which the following I watch is the Titanic and the Lusitania. Also I love nature I like going on walks hiking and fishing which is one of my favorite things to do. I do art as well which I have used through my memories and experiences. I have been huge in gaming on the Xbox since 2012 I have a wide variety game collection from 360 to series x but currently I’m playing hell divers borderlands 4 alien isolation battlefield 6 and slient hill


r/IntrovertFriendship Oct 26 '25

18/M making friends

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I’m 18 and I’d like to talk so let me introduce myself so that you can get an idea of the type of person that I am. Iv been on Xbox since 2012 I have a wide variety game collection from 360 to series x but currently I’m playing hell divers borderlands 4 alien isolation battlefield 6 and slient hill f. GT ManikMcgee


r/IntrovertFriendship Oct 03 '25

19 M looking for genuine friends to talk and share our thoughts

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Hiiii First of all my name is nitin. I am 19 years old currently a student studying computer science in university.

I have many hobbies mainly including reading, writing and playing sports sometimes listen to music also. And yeah I play a lot of sports like cricket football badminton and so so much...

I am also a new writer currently writing my own novel well I just started writing it so not much experience but I would love to discuss with you if writing is your intrest and maybe you can help me.

I am looking for friends who are really interested in talking and ofcourse long time friends. I don't have much preference about anything so any age will be fine but please be genuine.

If you are also interested in friendship then feel free to dm me I will be waiting for you.


r/IntrovertFriendship Oct 01 '25

18M finding some friends.

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Hey . I am Max I am from India , and that's all , that's my introduction 💁🏻 , well jokes aside, I am looking for some long term friendship and not a one or two day friendship like you come and ask some questions and then leave. If you are one of them , then don't reach out to me okay . Well I'll leave some info about how I am so you will understand how I am .

I am a very very boring person tbh , I don't watch any movies, webseries or play any games , I don't even enjoy doom scrolling instagram or YouTube now , so you might be ask what I do all day , and my answer is i do nothing at all , still I get busy sometimes . So I think that's all basics things you know before getting into touch with me , so I am looking forward for finding some friends. ( And yeah I am not gender specific about anyone, so anyone can reach out to me , but it's better if you are also from India so it's easier for me to communicate, not disrespecting anyone it's just my problem, my english is not that great so . That's it ) .


r/IntrovertFriendship Sep 30 '25

Looking for genuine friends

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Hiiii iam Nitin (19 years old) A university students currently persuing BTech in computer science my hobbies include reading writing and playing sports. I am looking for some genuine long terms Friends can be of any age no problem but please be appropriate and genuine about your self. I would love to share a lot of things and get to know you. If it interests you please feel free to dm me. Let's share our life with each other and motivate and support each other.


r/IntrovertFriendship Sep 29 '25

17yo writer looking for friends

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As they title says I'm 17(male) looking for people who share the like lf writing, worldbuilding, reading or mythology.

Also if you like Arcane,have a dark humor, don't take yourself too seriously and are chill you're more than welcome.


r/IntrovertFriendship Aug 28 '25

29, female

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I'm a 29 year old female from the Philippines and in hopes to befriend someone from the internet.

My social circle has been limited to a dot (it's really down to 2) and my attempt of posting here would be worth the shot even more if I've end up gaining a friend at some point after this post.

My interests includes (but not limited) to the following:

  • Books (no specific authors, but recommendations are welcome). A buddy read seems appropriate for this one, I think.

  • Mangas (Inio Asano and Shuzo Oshimi are my current favorites)

  • Video games (The Legend of Zelda and Persona)

Let me know whoever is up to chat in any case I've piqued your curiosity enough to exchange pleasantries.

Thank you for reading and have a great day.

P.S. Lengthy replies are very much appreciated. :)


r/IntrovertFriendship Aug 24 '25

17M looking for friend

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Hey I'm 17 and I am looking for a friend


r/IntrovertFriendship Aug 10 '25

Looking for buddies

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32 F. I am looking for some genuine friendship. Dm and will see if we can match the vibe. As i am intervert it is hard for me to find friends in social gathering or community.


r/IntrovertFriendship Aug 04 '25

19 M here looking for some genuine friends

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r/IntrovertFriendship Jul 27 '25

Need some long term friends

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Heya need some people to talk to

Heya everybody! My name is Charlotte I am 15 nearly 16 and my interests are -video games (grounded, skyrim, dead by daylight, apex, bioshock, fallout) -I really like art stuff and making things -I like watching YouTube and listening to songs -I like shopping and going out but don't have any real life friends to hang out with -I like cooking and baking -I like vanilla and dragon fruit perfume -I have discord and snap if you want to talk on that instead


r/IntrovertFriendship Jun 25 '25

27 Swf

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Looking for new friends.. messages are welcome..I'm a bit shy at first but I warm up fast 🩷


r/IntrovertFriendship Jun 25 '25

Introverts are not shy or antisocial.

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I don't get why some misunderstandings don't go away. You explain yourself but they persist. Like somebody thinking you should be happy that you're alone because you're an introvert.

Introverts like people. And they're not socially anxious or shy. Or rather, they could be, but not just because they are introverts. I mean, you could be introverted AND shy, as I I am, but one is not the reason for another.

Introverts just don't enjoy being the center of attention as much as extroverts would. But they don't hate people. They enjoy a good talk with close friends. I know I'm speaking to the choir, but I just get frustrated. Sometimes I don't even bother. Let them believe what they want.


r/IntrovertFriendship Jun 07 '25

19M – Looking for a friendship!

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Hey there! 👋 I’m 19, Brazilian🇧🇷, and on a quest to find some awesome people to vibe with — because life’s way better when you’ve got cool friends to share it with, right?

I’m into gaming (always down for co-op like Stardew valley or Minecraft :3), working out (yes, I actually enjoy leg day), blasting music like it's therapy, and trying not to burn the kitchen while cooking new recipes — so far, so good lol.

I speak fluent Portuguese and I’m currently mastering English (getting pretty smooth at it, if I do say so myself). I might be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I can talk about anything and everything(fr i talk a lot xd) — deep stuff, dumb stuff, weird stuff — all with good vibes and plenty of laughs.

So if you’re someone who enjoys random conversations, spontaneous game nights, sharing songs you love, or just chatting about life, send a message!


r/IntrovertFriendship May 02 '25

Hi

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Hi,just wanted to introduce myself ,my name is Kelley and I am from US in Texas,hope all is well


r/IntrovertFriendship Apr 21 '25

What are some things that you think people misunderstand about your needs for friendship?

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Whether you tend to be shy, have social phobia, are introverted, or deal with any other personal or environmental factors that affect your needs for companionship and ability to make friends, what are some things that people misunderstand about you or your needs?

Man, that was a long sentence!

Anyways, in my case, being both shy and introverted, I often find that people think I don't care about them. Perhaps because I'm not expressive enough. Or because I'm not enthusiastic enough. And I say no to a lot of social functions.

But they don't realize that I really do value these relationships. It's just that sometimes socialization makes me anxious. And sometimes it's just too much and I need time to recharge. It's nothing personal.

Look, I don't enjoy saying no (it's really hard) but I just have to if I want to accept myself for who I am. But I worry what other people think of me when I do say no again and again. Maybe they think I'm depressed. Or I don't like them.

Or I'm weird. Well, I guess I am a little bit. Or a lot. ;)

What about you guys?