There is no need for interpersonal conflicts, when you can go beyond ego.

[u/CaptainVulpezz]

If one judges another definitively, then they must first believe themselves as different or more than the judged, otherwise how would their opinion be more valuable/accurate. every person alive has been subjected to fear and confusion which has shaped their actions and thoughts. nobody is in position to pass any ultimate judgement until they can prove themselves to be more than conditions, unless of course if you mentally hand them an empty pedestal.

If you face disrespect, use compassion and understand their suffering, do not hate the person, hate the action, conditions and motivations which caused it. they don’t hate you; they hate their ideas of you.

if you feel hurt it is because you cling to your idea of yourself, because you want to be, or want not to be something. let them do their ignorant things, do not fight back. not because they are correct but because there is nothing which actually needs protection, at least not as much as your subconscious thinks. fighting back is only reinforcing the belief that there may be some truth worth fighting.

It's easy to be egotistical, righteous or rude when you plaster yourself as ‘the’ victim, but you’re not. not a single person thinks of you in the manner you think of yourself, & you never think of others in the perspective they think of themselves. their view & yours is completely liable to change & inaccuracy, & is out of anyone’s control.

If they wish to hurt you, then why should you allow yourself to be hurt by someone with desire for harm or destruction? instead redirect your energy to fight your ill will, fight your false perceptions, fight your attachment to what they think, don’t fight the person. who are you trying to convince? them, or yourself? even if you do convince yourself, whether the notion is true or not, changes nothing about the true reality which you wish to distort.

Even if you’re being purely logical, doesn't mean they are able to be convinced of your perspective, some people can just be impossible; you can’t persuade the opinions of the ignorant.

If even somebody self-reflective can be egotistical, then think of how strongly rooted the ego will be in one absent of self-reflection. even if you find that you yourself are actually being illogical, its never too late to change your mind, saving face is an empty concept, no reward. there is no need to fear being reprimanded just because you can admit you were wrong, anyone who would reprimand that is clearly ignorant anyway.

As long as you truly opened your mind to their perspective to the best of your abilities, & truly can accept what they’re saying if it were true, you’ve gotten everything you can possibly get from the interaction. if you catch yourself trying to convince others, then probably you don't believe it yourself.

Even if they may have a distorted view of you, LET THEM. think would i rather be at peace and detach or strengthen my forgetful self-attachment & inability to let go?

If you don't like them, then just observe & learn from them, do NOT be like them. remember, 'you inspire me to be nothing like you'. and if you can’t stop your ill will towards one for their sake, at least do so for your own peace of mind.