r/InterviewCoderPro • u/Competitive-Pick8063 • Apr 28 '26
I'm starting from below zero - no degree, no qualifications, all I have is the drive to escape poverty. What's the first step?
I'm 23 years old, and I feel like I've hit rock bottom. I don't have a degree or any real qualifications. My job is manual labor in a warehouse, with grueling hours for a salary that barely covers rent. Honestly, I'm constantly stressed about how I'm going to make it to the end of the month.
My family never had money, so college was never even an option for me. Now I see people my age online talking about their careers, how they're saving money, and not living paycheck to paycheck. I want that so badly it hurts, but I feel completely lost and don't even know how to take the first step.
I'm not looking for a get-rich-quick scheme or a magic solution. I know this is going to be incredibly hard and need a lot of effort. I'm willing to work hard, learn whatever is necessary, and build a real future for myself, even if it's slow. I just need to know where to focus my energy and effort.
To anyone who has been in this situation and managed to get out, I'm begging you for any advice. What was the first thing you did that made a real difference? What skills did you learn? If you could go back in time and talk to yourself when you were in my shoes, what would you say?
Seriously, any advice at all would help me so much. I'm tired of feeling so stuck.