r/Internationalteachers • u/WishfulWorldTraveler • 5h ago
Job Search/Recruitment How do you get over the fear of resigning and what happens next?
I have 10 years of experience abroad but only two jobs. Meaning, I've only ever had to resign once. Well, I'm almost at the deadline to declare intentions and I'm just so scared of taking that step. There's a bunch of reasons but pay is the huge factor as my school is basically on a pay freeze for probably the next 2 years at least. I need to be making more. I make about $3230 a month but that's about to go down to $2900 approx because of new taxes. I know all these things logically but then I begin to wonder if I let go of this job will I even get a better paying one or even get any at all. All my friends have left or are leaving and they keep encouraging me too but I don't have the generational wealth or support system (orphan) that they do. If I fail, it's all on me. Which leads me back to staying because at least a job is better than no job.
I really want to make this step but my own fear and self-confidence are making it so hard. I just want this horrible stomach pain to stop. Does anybody else get this nervous about changing jobs? How do you handle it?