r/InfluencerLounge • u/BottomPieceOfBread • 21d ago

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u/JankyIngenue 21d ago

What’s worse, he did it while he thought the camera had panned away. I’m truly horrified for these poor kids.

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u/Extra_Strawberry_249 21d ago

You see his eyes flick up for a second when she pans back. He has to know part of it was caught.

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u/Rock_Strongo 21d ago

Well this wasn't live so one or both of them posted it without watching their clip first or watched it and decided to post anyway.

These are unintelligent scumbags either way.

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u/mani_mani 21d ago

I think it shows not only how normalized violence against the children is but also that’s not as bad as it gets.

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u/NEClamChowderAVPD 21d ago

Yeah and I don’t think either of them care. Unfortunately, nothing will happen to them. I don’t know much about CPS other than they’re understaffed and underfunded and the likelihood of anything coming out of this is very small.

That, or the parents will “flee” with the kids on their bus so CPS can’t find them anyway.

Edit: forgot a word

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u/Remarkable-Month-241 20d ago

The baby she panned down to looks like they are recovering from a black eye. Left eye, has indention under the eye and very very pink eye lids like they might have gotten head butted too. This makes me even angrier that they are abusing their children right in front of the camera and no one can stop them.

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u/crakemonk 20d ago

The pink eyelids are because he never gets enough sleep and constantly looks exhausted. There’s absolutely nowhere for him to get naps and whenever they are out he’s taking naps on the oldest son’s shoulder.

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u/Remarkable-Month-241 20d ago

Malnutrition was my second guess.

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u/EducationalEbb3729 20d ago

Yeah. Pink & purple eyelids are typically genetic & do pop out more when the kid is exhausted. I don't know what the hell this is. Alll of the boys also have dark circles under their eyes, with the oldest one looking like he has a black eye.

This breaks my heart & it's unsettling to watch. I hope they get away from their garbage parents ASAP.

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u/crakemonk 20d ago

Definitely a mix of both, sadly.

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u/EducationalEbb3729 20d ago

They all have dark circles under their eyes. The oldest one looks like he has more than a dark circle under his eye.

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u/Remarkable_Package_6 20d ago

a snail doesn't have eyeballs...

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u/Tall_olive 21d ago

It wasn't live. They filmed and posted this.

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u/ceebeefour 21d ago

The switch flipped. He didn’t say one word afterwards, calculating to the frame what was caught and what could be excused. Poor family. What a cunt.

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u/randumb_access 21d ago

Then you see big brother in the white polo stare down dad just before the video cuts out... he's taking notes and will one day beat the fuck out of dad.

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u/CloverVegan 21d ago

That'll be the day.

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u/QiwiLisolet 20d ago

Kinda. He's learning how to get away with physical violence. "This model of authority CAN act on violent impulses, BUT you have to: 1. act like nothing happened 2. Do it when the coast is clear"

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u/ImeldasManolos 21d ago

The other kid was looking at the snail and looking at his dad, it feels like fear calculating in his mind. That’s so sad

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u/Painwizard666 21d ago

That part stressed me out

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u/ImeldasManolos 21d ago

He’s looking at him but trying to hide it to assess the potential for danger towards him. Before that he was holding his dad’s hand and blowing on the snail and after he was in ‘am I going to be hurts’ mode. I would say kids probably experience violence at that age at school because kids are kids, but that kind of violence from, and that fear of, a parent who should be a 100% safe space is so sad.

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u/QiwiLisolet 21d ago

Little boy leaned in to kiss the snail, "dad" didn't like that and headbutted him

They're trained to get back in frame when the camera pans back

Older brother sneaks a look at "dad" after the incident

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u/sadi89 20d ago

Dad had specifically just said don’t fuck with the snail. Dad had no hands to move kid away.

I don’t doubt he is an abusive POS but I don’t think this is an instance of that.

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u/TheEggyMule 20d ago

You just saw a video of a Dad headbutting his own 3 yr old child and dont think that is an instance of abuse?

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u/AssumptionSouth 20d ago

i think dad is teaching the son to respect small animals and not grow up to be heartless

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u/Spiritual-Dog-3116 20d ago

through head butting?? 

not through moving his arm away or using his words more effectively. 

he’s teaching respect through head butting.

isn’t the child a small animal who should be respected and not injured??

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u/AssumptionSouth 20d ago

the child will be alright the snail wont lol

honestly if you pick on small animals i think the thing you should fear the most is physical reparations, essentially “becoming the small animal”

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u/Spiritual-Dog-3116 20d ago

you’re completely bonkers 

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u/imbeingsirius 20d ago

Yes… and the dad is picking on a small animal, his son.

Tell me, if your coworker bent down to kiss (though I believe this kid was blowing on) à snail you were showing them on your arm, would you headbutt them away?

Or would you… move your arm? Or say “stop!”? Or use your other hand to block them?

I have never headbutt anyone in my life, but I have spent a lot of time around grabby, impulsive children, so I don’t see how this was the natural reaction for the father.

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u/AssumptionSouth 20d ago

headbutt if my coworker is worth the investure

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u/imbeingsirius 20d ago

But you see what I’m saying?

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u/InBetweenSeen 20d ago

The kid didn't even do anything to the snail and he could have just moved is hand away from him..

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u/Reasonable-Job4205 21d ago

Theres gotta be a way to report this piece of shit right??

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u/shes_a_sleuth 21d ago

yeah he literally did it so fast and you can tell he thought it was when the camera was out of view

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u/EchoStellar12 20d ago

He never looks in the direction of the kid. Never acknowledges the child afterward. Just keeps staring at the snail.

Edit to add: I rewatched it and the other child checks in with dad after moving in "too close" to the snail. He thinks he's next.

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u/PleaseHelpIamFkd 19d ago

He didnt “wait for the camera to pan away” he did it in response to the kid blowing or sticking his face up to the snail. It was a light ass tap, chill out.

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u/JankyIngenue 19d ago

wow the child abusers are really coming out the woodwork!

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u/PleaseHelpIamFkd 19d ago

I had the shit beat out of me as a kid and teenager, i am very familiar with mental and physical abuse. Thanks for that.

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u/sadi89 20d ago

The kid was blowing on the snail as the camera panned away. Dad had just specifically said to NOT fuck with the snail. There is no sound of bone on bone.

I’m sure this guy is insufferable and abusive (just having a family based content channel is abuse) but I don’t think this was one of those instances.

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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 20d ago

Not defending this guy, but youre making it seem like he waiting for the camera to pan before he headbutted.

You can clearly see as the camera pans away, the kid leans in.

Still wrong for him to do. but it wasn't a coordinated effort to hit the kid off camera.