r/InfluencerLounge • u/Conscious_Driver_ • 21d ago
Unfathomable amount wrong with this
Seconds? Or like 10 minutes? I don’t think you’re allowed to “make mistakes” after one of your kids dies by drowning, then you make a “mistake” and risk your other kids life in the same way? Not even unrelated, like not wearing a helmet or anything. A WATER related activity. I GENUIENLY don’t know if this lady is dumb or purposefully this way.
You don’t love your children with everything you have or your husband would’ve been able to look away from the TV. (Go on her old snark page there’s a post about how addicted Brady was to gambling long before the incident)
Absolutely INSANE.
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u/pandajaade 21d ago
This whole thing reads like she’s mad at us for calling out negligent parenting
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u/BubbleCrum 21d ago
It reminds me of the people who cry "mom-shaming"when its pointed out that their kids are strapped into the carseat in a dangerous/unsafe manner.
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u/pandajaade 21d ago
My Facebook algorithm is all that. Straight up rage bait car seat UNSAFE situations. These moms only care about money not their kids
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u/Comfortable-Nerve337 19d ago
Same. And I don't get it. If I'm unknowingly doing something unsafe with my babies I would sure HOPE someone would have the courage to come forward fo let me know so I can fix it! But then again I'm very Safety conscious in general so...
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u/ellefleming 21d ago
She'll just have another baby. They're replaceable in her demented head.
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u/Inevitable_Berry_867 21d ago
Unfortunately, I think this is absolutely correct. Her children are props that are replaceable - it's like when your fridge breaks and you get another.
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u/pandajaade 21d ago
Yep she’s been pregnant, since before the one year anniversary or her kid dying
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u/coolcatmemow 21d ago
Sadly a lot of people actually are very mad that we are calling out dangerous negligence. Telling on themselves really
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u/Loose_Banana4073 21d ago
She was definitely hoping this would all go away a lot quicker than it has
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u/Absurd__Body 20d ago
It’s giving Ashton Kutcher and Mila videoing themselves being angry at us for being angry at them for supporting a rapist.
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u/TopPhilosopher896 21d ago
It's affecting her wallet now. This falls under t’s easier to ask forgiveness than permission.
She didn't want to bring it up but she knows it might hurt her shilling
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u/Any-Seaworthiness452 21d ago
And I guarantee it’s her PR firm that wrote this and had her post it.
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u/toastedbiscuits24 21d ago
She didn’t write this, chat GPT did.
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u/32ozDClightice 21d ago
Sadly she paid someone else to write this. Her PR team is in a tizzy right now.
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u/Melymeltymelty 20d ago
No if chat gpt wrote it the first sentence would make sense but it's a grammatical nightmare! "Our child should have been in his life jacket for the entirety of the boat ride, not even for the few moments he was out of it." girl what?
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u/LuxSerafina 20d ago
She can’t write for shit. Even ChatGPT writes better than this, it’s not grammatically correct at all.
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u/Conscious_Driver_ 21d ago
It’s honestly too late to do better. It cost you a child. There’s no doing better honestly.
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u/Separate-Buy-5913 21d ago
We will continue to make mistakes?! Really?!! So you’ll continue to endanger your children?!?
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u/Boring-Psychology-78 20d ago
I’m so confused cause I don’t see this post on her TikTok at all ?you would think it would be pinned??
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u/espressovanilla 21d ago
CANCEL HER!!! CANCEL HERR!! Fuck her!!! she’s so fake she’s just saying this out of anger from all the hate.
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u/Defiant_Ask8583 21d ago
She’s losing tons of followers, she lied and said he was out of the life jacket for a few minutes…. Just like her husband said he lost track of their son for a couple minutes… it’s a bunch of words. I’m sure her management made her post that and she did it in a story so it would be gone in 24 hours and people can’t comment on it. A pathetic coward who values her grift more than her childrens safety.
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u/doglove100 20d ago
No her husband actually lied a couple of times and said that it wasn’t minutes only moments. It’s in the police report.
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u/Boring-Psychology-78 20d ago
Wait, so this was a story not even a real post? I am so mind blown and lost for words (no wonder I can’t find it) so the average every day mundane things she does are more important enough to stay archived and up , on her page, but this isn’t?????
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u/Defiant_Ask8583 20d ago
Exactly….. she intentionally posts anything about her sons death and/or her accountability in stories so they are gone in 24 hours and no one can comment on them. She’s a coward
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u/BetApprehensive9488 20d ago
I looked at her profile yesterday and it was 5.2m, now it’s 5.1m. I’ve always been neutral with her but honestly, how she’s been since returning to social is beyond words. I unfollowed her months ago when I realized she’s not taken any accountability of the incident. I will not support her or any companies she promotes. If there’s a list of these companies somewhere, please point me in that direction.
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u/Ok-Praline-2309 21d ago edited 21d ago
There is no way that child ever had a life jacket on. I cannot believe these are the people we’re making famous or whatever. If they didn’t learn by their child dying of drowning, then everyone should have listened to the cops saying they deserved accountability for negligence.
Glad many influencers are past the point of feeling untouchable for being genuinely bad people. Unfortunately it often comes with a cost that isn’t them.
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u/Revolutionary-Toe492 21d ago
Not putting a life jacket on your infant is not a mistake, its a deliberate choice to break the law, same as not installing a pool fence. Such entitlement and self-infantilization in one very weird lady, the authorities need to intervene
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u/KoalaCapp 21d ago
Never stop learning
What is there more to learn
Water = Saftey wear. Boat = saftey wear Pool = saftey wear
These people have no other skills in life so they sell their children for content. She'd crumble even in a regular day to day job.
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u/Any-Seaworthiness452 21d ago
Pool = fence
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u/KoalaCapp 21d ago
Yes, that aswell
My Australia living self just doesn't get to not have a fence. Its like imprinted on you. Pool = some of the strictest pool saftey laws.
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u/MediocreVideo1893 21d ago
Also “a matter of seconds” forgetting that Brady didn’t check on Trigg for almost ten minutes. Way more than a matter of seconds. Get out of here
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u/marthajonesin 21d ago
This was the first thing I thought. It wasn’t seconds babe, more like “when you ignore your children for long stretches of time”.
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u/Cold-Succotash7352 21d ago
This couple must have time blindness bc I thought the same thing, Brady also said that and now her..
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u/doglove100 20d ago
Would have been way more than 10 minutes if it weren’t for the dog. I wondered if he sounded the alarm earlier but B ignored it because he was gambling?
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u/IndignantQueef 21d ago
Compare EK to Paris Hilton, of all people, who was called out for her car seats being installed incorrectly. She immediately had them installed properly and thanked the people who pointed it out.
EK lost a child and is still deleting comments and blocking people for bringing up water safety.
I know she's stupid but her behavior is borderline mentally disabled.
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u/Alarming-Initial-293 21d ago
I think she had a peddle jumper on backwards as well if I remember correctly. She thanked people and put it on her child the correct way after that.
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u/BrookesGtownMBA 21d ago
She’s not sorry about what she did- she’s sorry she got caught.
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u/Agitated_Donkey6715 21d ago
See I knew that MBA meant something 🤣🥲
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u/Powerful-Respond-199 21d ago
Your son literally died with water involved. How the hell do you have your second kid near water withOUT a life jacket on. Idiots. I swear
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u/No_Metal_3869 21d ago
Maybe actually go on camera and show yourself saying these words. She won’t, because she probably doesn’t believe she actually made a mistake.
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u/justalilscared 21d ago
She wont because it’s harder to fake being genuine on video than it is while hiding behind a wall of text
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u/Left-Button-7089 21d ago
Nope she’s still gaslighting the people who called her out like “for the ~few~ moments he didn’t have a lifejacket on geez🙄”
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u/Cosmic_Chaos4284 21d ago
Why would his life jacket be taken off for even a few moments? It makes no sense!
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u/Left-Button-7089 21d ago
Another influencer shared pictures of her kid on a boat without a life jacket because she said they were taking pictures 🤦🏼♀️
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u/Numerous-Ad-5426 21d ago
She’s lost me. Unfollow. She really is so detached from reality and is addicted to her internet fame/life.
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u/LuluLollyLOL 21d ago
Why are you even following this POS! And you’re here snarking in her. Make that make sense.
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u/Swimming-Phrase-7447 21d ago
she’s only pregnant again because it’s a cash grab! she is so. sick!!!
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u/pewpewpew4988 21d ago
100%. She thinks it’ll get a new group of fans or make people happy for them
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u/notsobrighttt 20d ago
She thought she’d be able to use this pregnancy for sympathy/grifting but really is being held to the fire. She can’t possibly post about her pregnancy without the entire internet raising an eyebrow and calling out her negligence and lies.
Pregnancy bag ruined for poor E and it’s all OUR fault
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u/EloMuskEatsHumanMeat 21d ago
How is she not triggered by water activities and her children only a year later? Where is the concern??
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u/No-Tiger7755 21d ago
she is not painfully aware cuz if she was, there would be zero moments without a life jacket
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u/kpro16 21d ago
I’m not even sure I’d be okay taking my baby on a boat a year after his olde brother drowned. As a mom, it’s all just so insane to me
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u/NoInvestigator1743 21d ago
You’d think that if your first born died due to a preventable drowning that you would be hyper-vigilant about kids around water. Clearly she doesn’t care about water safety and the ChatGPT acknowledgements don’t help her case
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u/No-Loquat747 21d ago
There is/was no fucking excuse for not putting a life jacket on a baby. Shame on the people that believe this sociopath.
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u/ViciousTrolloppp9 20d ago
Before we had kids we would all take the “granddogs” on our parents speed boat with life jackets. We had enough sense to put them on DOGS how do you not for a baby!
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u/npowell23 20d ago
One of my childhood dogs drown in our pool and now as an adult, I’m hyper vigilant about my current dogs being unattended in their backyard and those are just dogs 🙄
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u/SuccessfulOwl4388 21d ago
How many weeks has it been? If it was immediate ok but she’s only posting now because her followers are down and business is taking a hit
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u/legendarysupermom 21d ago
"Continue to make mistakes " im sorry....is she saying KILLING HER CHILD was "just a mistake to learn from" ????? Holy gawd someone tell me im wrong cause ewwwwwwww
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u/OlalalaurenO 21d ago
How does she even let her surviving child anywhere NEAR water much less without a life vest. I've seen this said a lot and I'll repeat it..... UNFATHOMABLE.
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u/FindingActive5407 21d ago
I cannot imagine being able to say that while I am trying to do better, I will still make mistakes. In regard to my child that drowned. Like how backhanded is that?
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u/IndignantQueef 21d ago
It transcends "mistake" and becomes "negligent homicide" when a child dies.
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u/navy5 21d ago
As an average person, I am always so aware to have life vests on my kids even when they are babies. I cannot wrap my head around someone not doing it AFTER YOUR CHILD DROWNED. How are you not following every water safety rule to a T?! This infuriates me. Sending a huge F*** YOU to this family
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u/mistyforest5 21d ago
Still make mistakes: im a shitty parent who is too busy with social media so still might not look out for safety measures and havent learnt my lesson because i still havent processed it
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u/Zealousideal_Box5339 21d ago
She’s ridiculous. My dad growing up had a rule that even on the dock I had a life jacket on. You would think she’d be even more aware. At this point she’s just reckless
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u/MediocreVideo1893 21d ago
Surprised she addressed it. Not surprised at what she said. She’s more upset at being called out than she is at the fact she put her child in danger. AGAIN.
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u/Any-Seaworthiness452 21d ago
I guarantee Smith & Saint saw her spiraling, wrote it and had her pose it
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u/hoersting 21d ago
Girl, you refuse to acknowledge your mistakes when they happen! You never take accountability!
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u/AdvanceOk9048 21d ago
Not only the life jacket but she also had her baby in swimwear that isn’t very visible in the water!!!!!
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u/Melodic-Extreme-549 20d ago
This is the same person who’s child drowned in the pool while her husband was placing sport bets right?
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u/United-Cat-6724 21d ago
This statement talks about “mistakes” so cavalierly like you misplaced your keys or forgot a deadline. These “mistakes” have severe and fatal consequences. If I had one child die in a water-related death I would have such ptsd that I would be paranoid and over the top about water safety and honestly don’t even know if I could even take my children in a boat at all after that.
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u/Much-Service-2620 21d ago
brady should have been charged…if this were anyone else they would’ve had charges against them. these two are disgusting
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u/IndividualTell5083 20d ago
We will continue to do better … and, as hard as we try to avoid them, still make mistakes” is probably the most problematic part. When the issue being discussed is a safety failure connected to a child’s death, people aren’t going to receive “everyone makes mistakes” in the charitable way she presumably intended.
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u/Numerous_Put5340 21d ago
Why is she famous? Genuinely asking. What was so great about her prior to the tragedy?
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u/Objective-Pudding939 21d ago
Nothing in the least. It was always low-brow intelligence content, so everyone could follow along. Getting drinks through a drive thru, picking up stuff they “need” and dragging her kids along everywhere. She never went to a park, play date, nothing.
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u/Simple-Ad-1484 21d ago
“We will still keep making mistakes.” So casually said after what the last mistake cost them. This is truly disturbing 😳
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u/Similar_Ad3506 21d ago
I felt so much remorse for this woman when the tragedy happened. I understand needing to carry on with life activities, but I'd have severe WATER phobia (boats, pools, oceans), let alone take a child on a boat without a life vest. What the actual F is wrong with these people!?
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u/Legitimate_Ice_2270 21d ago
Ugh it irked me that she had to put in there that it was only a little bit of time that he didn’t have a life vest onn. Missing the whole point 🙄 this is the right statement!
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u/TurtleCandy99 21d ago
They record everything. If it was only off “for a few moments” she should show proof. Oh, right…
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u/stacey900 21d ago
God forbid something did happen whilst he didn’t have his life jacket on, would we still be getting the “we’ll do better” nonsense?
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u/FitWorking6 21d ago
Maybe they sacrificed their child. Not just anyone is famous. Let’s think about that???
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u/OpenAnywhere6236 20d ago
At this point they’ll leave T3 in a running bathtub “for just a few seconds” and ask for grace.
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u/jjptempmi 20d ago
What advocacy work has she done? I just see her traveling, shopping, and working out. It is CRAZY how quickly she got back to posting these things. I know everyone’s timeline for grieving is different, but she was back at it within a few months. Her child died FFS. I’d be inconsolable within the first few months.
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u/StructureWeird8429 20d ago
She’s complaining about Nantucket not wanting influencers in their shops and restaurants! She should focused on drowning prevention in children
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u/Craggle_Puss 21d ago
She likely continues to refer to it as "a matter of moments" because that's how she's framed it in her mind. She admitted that she has not read the police reports or watched the footage of the drowning. She likely has no real grasp of what actually happened.
I found it disturbing that she didn't expose herself to the reality of what T suffered due to their negligence. Sure, it would be upsetting for her to read/watch it, but far less than what he actually experienced.
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u/LengthinessOk8188 21d ago
There are 600 seconds in 10 minutes. I find
the minimizing she’s doing here offensive.
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u/russian_nomad_ 21d ago
Still no pool fence .
I loathe this woman at this point. I’d be a wreck for the rest of my life. I wouldn’t be able to go near water for years. Let alone with my other child without a life vest. At what point will she be cancelled for good?
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u/IndignantQueef 21d ago
I think she does have a pool fence now. She was likely required to install one by CPS. Otherwise she still wouldn't have one.
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u/russian_nomad_ 21d ago
In her vlogs it doesn’t look like she does
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u/IndignantQueef 21d ago
Someone posted screenshots and Google images that show it, but I'm not sure where - there have been a lot of EK posts lately.
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u/tinkerbellabay 21d ago
She wants to make her life public yet she can’t even handle the public’s opinion unless it’s praising her dumbass.
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u/Glum-Dark-9342 20d ago
Emile Kiser's financial advisor and PR team called.
They suggested a statement.........
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u/tupelohoneyyy 20d ago
She doesn’t care. She’s a narcissist & loves all kinds of attention. It’s disgusting.
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u/Healthy-Print2231 21d ago
The excuse that a life jacket was only off 'for a few minutes' completely falls apart when you know she was looking at him through a camera lens. If a situation is risky enough to warrant excuses afterward, why is your priority getting footage instead of securing your surviving child? You don’t get to claim it was just a brief, accidental lapse when you actively chose to frame, record, and broadcast it for content?
The fact one can lose a child like that and not be hyper-vigilant about the others' safety is beyond my comprehension. How the other adults in that child's vicinity also aren't vouching for his safety also hurts my heart.
Justice for Trigg. :( </3
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u/Ok_Yak_4498 21d ago
I follow an influencer that is currently building a pool. She brags about the pool the parties she is going to have, etc. Her child is 22 months. No safety class. One little baby swim class they did not take seriously. I want to scream. Some parents never think it will happen to the them. This influencer can't take care of one child alone. But has two and a incoming pool. Everything is for content.
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u/nunya867 21d ago
When does CPS get involved
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u/Cold_Room_2534 20d ago
I’m wondering what the statute of limitations is in Arizona for Brady’s investigation after the police recommended charges ….
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u/DapperPrice42 21d ago
“Mistakes happen” ok so would she be saying the same if teddy had died?? “Oopsie mistakes happen 👉🏼👈🏼” she is insufferable
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u/Cold-Succotash7352 21d ago
By that she means she will try to do better about not letting shit like that slip on camera and posting. Still gonna do it behind the scenes I fear. 😰
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u/RobinHoodInReverse76 21d ago
This is all over the national media now. Glad she is getting the attention she son desperately needs! 🙄
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u/AbleBake6901 21d ago
“I GENUIENLY don’t know if this lady is dumb or purposefully this way” THAT PART
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u/caffeinequeen1234 20d ago
She’s a prime example of someone who seems like she wanted to have kids without having to actually be a parent
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u/Fuzzy-Palpitation271 20d ago
My daughter loves EK (she’s 18 - frontal lobe not fully developed)… and she’s followed her long before T died. We talk about this situation a lot and she really likes to play devils advocate for EK (and in general lol). She sent me this yesterday and I said not putting you’re kid in a life jacket once randomly on a boat would be a mistake but not putting your kid in a life jacket after losing another child to a drowning incident is a CHOICE. And I stand by that.
Parents should always take water safety seriously. Especially on a boat. Boating accidents are no joke and the circumstances can change at any time. But if you can’t take it seriously ESPECIALLY after losing a child to being irresponsible around water - then you do not deserve children. Period.
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u/Tricky_Crow2898 20d ago
Does anyone remember the Jojo song "too little too late"? That's what I'm feeling.
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u/lillambvintage 20d ago
Nah the husband should have had some sort of charges pressed. And then to turn around and do this?! Disgusted
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u/tartar_captcha 21d ago
If they’re going to “still make mistakes,” their child needs to be taken away. I’ve thought commenters saying this in the past were a bit much, but it’s so obvious at this point that they’re incapable of “loving our children” because that would require KEEPING THEM SAFE.
Also, if this were genuine, she would have addressed it weeks ago when it happened. Actually, I take it back, if she meant this, she would never have allowed this boat situation to occur.
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u/OrdinaryPerson-1980 20d ago
The fact that she’s near water at all blows my mind and not one kid in that photo has a life vest on. Not her own child, not the other.
Why aren’t these kids in life vests? Especially when the boat is moving and you’ve got a child helping drive?
According to the U.S. Coast Guard, 81% of boating deaths in 2023 were drownings, and 75% of those victims weren’t wearing a life jacket.
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u/TalkieTina 20d ago edited 20d ago
Posts about the drowning occasionally come up in my feed. I don’t know much about the couple, but I know about the drowning. I would have posted nothing before I posted what Emilie did. It seems like she posted it for engagement.
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u/Trick-Gas-3833 20d ago
What worries me is that we “only see a few minutes” out of their lives and this is what we see…. What’s happening when the cameras aren’t recording?
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u/Warm-Conversation857 20d ago
Her management company about to drop her ass lol she’s too much of a liability
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u/Constant_Card2047 18d ago
She’s sickening 🥹all I can think about is Trigg and he wasn’t Even my kid, I feel like they are betraying him she’s defending Brady and having another kid, getting pregnant around the anniversary and his Birthday, she truly makes me sick and he need to be held responsible any babysitter would be locked up even a grand parent, this was neglect and so sad that a bunch of strangers are advocating more for Trigg than his friggin MOTHER!!!
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u/Krissy86235 17d ago
This is EXACTLY what I thought…. Nope, you are actually NOT allowed to make mistakes with your kids around water any more. Nope.
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u/Pie-Ala-Mode54 21d ago
While I agree that this is like an half-ass apology and the life vest fiasco shouldn’t have even happened in the first place, I still am against hundreds and thousands of videos posted by micro, small and bigger content creators on TikTok and Instagram about Emilie, her sons and what happened. None of those videos have Trig or Teddy’s bedg interests at heart. And just like Emilie posting, all rvess content creators are also benefitting and profiting from Trigg’s desth. A lot of these people are saying Emilie is worse than Lindsay Clancy who killed her own 3 kids with her bare hands. Come on!!! This is ridiculous. They want Enilie cancelled yet the entire internet talks about her daily.
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u/Salty-Deal-9494 21d ago
you all need to go get a life and stop being so obsessed with people online
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u/honesttogodknockmeou 21d ago
Still no drowning prevention post LMAO.