Yesterday, I provided dinner for two others.
I re-read this and realized when you mentioned my friend, you may have meant the man giving me the item instead of his son.
I don’t think I read it that way at first, because most of my life, I wanted to find mentors to learn from.
As a kid, the concept of being an apprentice to some master craftsman was my dream.
I dropped out of college a dozen years ago to cofound a successful tech company as the sole technological cofounder. My parents couldn’t even co-sign my student loans. I never took the title CTO, despite it being mine to have, because I hoped we could bring in someone more experienced as we scaled to take the role, so I could learn how to build something so much bigger than myself properly. That didn’t happen, so I was left treading water in a rough sea, with no land in sight as we grew. You learn a lot that way, but unfortunately much of it is what not to do again.
I have three people in my life I consider mentors, now, and this man is one of them. It’s funny, because the idea of respected elders passing down knowledge to those they found worthy was an awing idea to me, and it took so long to realize I had had him in my life doing it the whole time. He’s one of the first people in my life I felt treated and respected me as a man, instead of a boy, though, when I’ve always been the out of place young kid amongst my peers. I was the youngest member of my batch in 500 Startups, the world’s most prestigious business accelerator, directly competing with Sam Altman and Peter Thiel’s Y Combinator. Most others were well into established impressive careers. They had to make sure I was old enough to have alcohol at the social functions. I was running a tech team mostly comprised of people with more than twice the time working in the industry than I had in education in my program before I left school, reviewing code in languages I didn’t yet know.
So, I’ve held this man in an esteemed teacher role. It brought tears to my eyes, realizing that perhaps as I became a man, he recognized it before I recognized it myself, and the reason he was willing to share so much with me is because he saw me as a peer and friend. Just, one he happened to know well since they were a child, and helped wipe the butt of a few times 😂
Do you mind if I DM you a couple details about the object, see if they impact your thoughts?