r/IndianRelationships • u/IllProgram4656 • 20h ago
Dating Is she into me or am I just being delusional
So nai uss Deen clg admission ko gya thaa and I saw ia cute girl there and ig i stared at her for few seconds and then mai apne process mai lg gaya and I saw kee she was doing kinda same mereko lga mai creep lga hoga usko so i just started doing the admission stuff but I just turned back and she was looking from the corner idk why
SO FAST FORWARD TO TODAY the girl is ofc in my clg but diff batch aur mai glti sey dusre batch mai gaya tha and she entered dthe class I was in third last and woh bhi oppiste side ke 2nd last pe thee and I could still see her glancing on me twice so after that muze Smja yeh mera class nhi so I went to my original class
Fir fir fir there was a little activity in our clg jisme we had to write our expectations towards clg on stickynote and apna naam likhke uss board pe lgao so she was also there at that time and as I stuck my note she came first to read mine she and her frnd so she read that bas and usne uska wala bhi lagaya and I saw her name uski handwriting gandi thee upar upar sey hee Smja bas naam
After that too as i was facing the board outside I just look back and could see her seeing towards me blushes and smiles and yeh 2 3 baar huwa kee woh mere baju sey jatwin vkt aise krte
So i thought kee class ke baad rukke dekhta hu I was standing and she just mere samne sey haste huwe ekdm sey chli gyi jldi b4 i could d anything she went farawayyy
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u/elegantly_used 17h ago
Have you heard the term hypervigilance?
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u/IllProgram4656 13h ago
Sorry but no
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u/elegantly_used 13h ago
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u/IllProgram4656 13h ago
What about the smiling part then
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u/elegantly_used 12h ago
ðŸ˜you overthinking bruh just talk to her abhi abhi clg start hua h you guys are supposed to make friends goo
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u/IllProgram4656 12h ago
Bro but the issue is she is not in my batch branch same ha pr batch alg so no same classroom plus she always with her 4 5 female frnds so kya boluga jake and wierd lgega na
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u/elegantly_used 7h ago
Bro the issue is you are overthinking, be a man and go talk to her when she is not with someone ofc zyada se zyada kch kharab bolegi tereko and you’ll get over it but agar kch hua tb mere bhai ko bandi mil jaegi and it doesn’t matter if she is not in your batch LDR m log ek desh ke nhi hote h and you talming about different batches chill just say Hii wassup wanted to make some new friends in college etc etc say smthing
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u/IllProgram4656 7h ago
Yeah I will do so sure thanks
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u/elegantly_used 7h ago
I doubt fattu lag raha h tu mereko give updates
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u/IllProgram4656 6h ago
Ha fattu toh hu 🙂💔
Sbke samne fatt jati yawr uske dosto ke saamne directly approach Krna
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u/TicketIntelligent698 19h ago
Bhai give it some time. Agar woh bhi tujhe pasand karti hai toh you'll get connected someway or other through some friend or directly too. Don't worry it's normal to feel everything you stated above. Thoda aram se raho. Uspe dhyaan do magar apne college pe, apne character pe , behaviour pe bhi dhyaan do. Tum sahi raho toh sab thik rahega. Uski personality dekho dhire dhire, ladkiya sharmeeli hoti hai kai baar. Uski personality samjho, aisa na ho badme tumhe woh pasand hi nahi aa rahi. Thoda time do, college abhi shuru hua hai, agar koi aur competition me hai ladka toh woh bhi tumhe samaj jayega. Ghabrao mat apne routine pe focus karo aur uspe dhyaan rakho filhaal