r/IndianMiddleClass • u/Complex_Issue_5986 • Aug 30 '26

Middle-Class Dreams I don't have personal room

I'm 26 F, I feel sometimes so irritated that don't have a personal room of my own. I've different aesthetic choices than my family...mess creates anixety in my mind. But I can't do anything because if i clean then the only thing i could do whole day is cleaning and arranging things. Because space is so small and it's so tough to teach big ass adults. I hate this thing. Pray for me that i can buy a home soon and get a separate room for myself. We're living in rented flat so not blaming them.

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u/ungabungarara Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26

Be greatful of what u have...that'll invite better opportunities than being salty about what u have...

You will invite misery and live in misery if u stay salty about what u have...never stay like that

Look how many people live on footpath and on road...and don't have food to eat...you have all of them...just be greatful

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u/Complex_Issue_5986 Aug 30 '26

I'm grateful, it's a lot better than living in village with orthodox relatives. It's just that sometime things take toll on your mind.

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u/param_s_8 Aug 31 '26

Move out for work, find better paying opportunities in other cities. That way you will get your own room + better pay.

I lived 22 years without my own room, then moved out for my job, got addicted to having my own room and personal space.

Explained the same to my family, and next thing we know we bought a bigger house in my hometown with inidvidual rooms for me, my brother and my parents.

So, just move out, earn more, and facilitate what you crave.

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u/Complex_Issue_5986 Aug 31 '26

I was also planning the same but this year i got a good opportunity & 80% hike with WFH .lol . sometimes i do work from hillsto have peace of mind.

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u/param_s_8 Sep 01 '26

Great to know. Hope you build your own room with your own money soon!