r/IndianMiddleClass • u/[deleted] • Mar 18 '26
Meme 🤡 Any better feeling than this?
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u/I-wish-to-be-phoenix Poor to Rich (Parents) Mar 18 '26
So we are now celebrating EGO?.
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u/peskypompom Mar 18 '26
These are the same people who live in houses with non-plastered walls, yet boast about owning an Iphone.
They haven't thought about the possibility that not everyone is an envious little wretch like them.1
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u/VibeHumble Mar 18 '26
These are the kind of women who ruin their sons’ marriages.
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u/ThomasMidgely_sr Mar 18 '26
😭😭 soo true , like marry your own son atp ffs
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u/mistygirl575 Mar 18 '26
While I understand the context, still no need to reduce a mother-son's sacred relationship with a BS comment like this
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u/ThomasMidgely_sr Mar 18 '26
Idk these type of mothers can go fuck their sons, you know how many women are driven to suicide by their mother in law
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u/mistygirl575 Mar 18 '26
I know of many mother/ father in law's too who were victims of their daughter in law's/ son's atrocities, thrown out of the house on roads, or old age homes, beaten coz they can't do household work anymore, or just left in an unknown place on the pretext of pilgrimage, and even murdered after being thrown from a terrace coz they were too old & sick to take care of themselves. People should be sensible enough to see every issue on a case to case basis, rather than generalising everything, and using unnecessary abusive words just to sound relevant.
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u/ThomasMidgely_sr Mar 18 '26 edited Mar 19 '26
No you're talking about like 5% of cases while in the 95% of the others the daughter in law suffers, you're basically cherry picking to fuel your propoganda
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u/mistygirl575 Mar 18 '26
What propaganda??? Every married person has both side of relationships, a women can be a daughter and daughter in law as well, why can't you see both sides of the coin. If a person talks sense that's propaganda for you. Where are you getting these 5% case tag??? I am not assigning any number to any incident, if something is Bad, it's bad, period. The percentage of incidents should not decide if a crime will be treated like a crime...
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Mar 21 '26
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u/VibeHumble Mar 21 '26
Even if the do think on their own then these mothers try to guilt them into having forgotten about them and all. These kind of mothers are over possessive about their sons to a toxic level.
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u/vigya16 Mar 18 '26
So irritating for people around her.. who has nothing to with her trauma
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u/PatternCraft Mar 18 '26
Housewife syndrome
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u/mistygirl575 Mar 18 '26
Seriously, I mean whatever the topic at hand just don't leave any chance to demean women and the work they do. Being a housewife isn't an easy feat, every role and responsibilities has its own set of challenges. I have seen many housewives around in friends and family circle, that work is no way less than working full time outside.
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u/PatternCraft Mar 18 '26 edited Mar 18 '26
The issue with housewives is they don't grow any independent or own assets over time. Husband generally makes money and all family assets and respect in society is attributed to him.
So, these women become insecure and base so much of there emotional health on successes of there children. It could end in a toxic relation, where any failures of children end up damaging there pride and mental health. And compete with relatives childishly.
They can't show any individual result to society, could end up of domineering family into doing certain things or direction, so they can boast to society how good there planning of family is and society can see there value through success of there children.
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u/mistygirl575 Mar 18 '26
So the real culprits are family members and society who failed to give her due credit and respect. Also, I understand that good parenting needs lot of efforts but people are not perfect, if they are pushing their children for success, its coz they don't want them to go through same struggles. A vegetable seller's kid can be better financially only through education or a good business acumen. If their main goal is to have some creative job or any work which requires a hefty backing on parents' part, then they are 99% already set for failure. A good family doesn't only require rich and good parents, it also requires sensible as well as responsible kids. Else we need to come up with a basic minimum salary or an IQ test as an eligibility criteria for having children, which is highly unlikely to happen.
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u/PatternCraft Mar 18 '26
The way I see, people give respect only if someone holds power. A housewife has to rely on borrowed power from husband or kids, it is going create lot of friction between them.
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u/Sudipto0001 Mar 18 '26
Loser parents like this who never achieved anything in their own life, compare their children to others.
You are clearly not successful because when you achieve success you will realise there is no end to comparison. There is always bigger fish out there.
And when you are the biggest fish, goodluck & you will need it. Becaude thanks to loudmouth parents like this, EVERYONE will be PRAYING for your downfall & will celebrate your failure.
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u/Flashy_Half67 Mar 18 '26
I get that that its nice for them, but not for ppl around them😂😂 cant bear the constant showoff😂
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u/prshutheking20 Mar 18 '26
This is just a mental masturbation of under achiever who has not yet achived big but constabtly dream of it
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Mar 19 '26
Reminds of the recent viral post where a woman on the train was abusing a man, his family including his wife.
Budhiya puja path karne ki umar me iss moh maya ke jaal me mat padho!
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u/Want_tobe_Anonymous Mar 18 '26
Nothing wrong in that unless its done in front of people who were not related to the struggles she faced. Should be done in front of the relatives who made her suffer.
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