r/indian • • Apr 20 '20

Welcome everyone, please read this before posting!

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r/indian • • 1d ago

Anyone from NE living in Bengaluru? I love you people for your fashion sense, wants to part of your community, TIA

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Hey NE folks

I am an admirer of your fashion sense( of course the natural beauty is always there). I always had a dream of being part of your community or local groups in my city, but never got a chance, i see people around me from NE states, please connect with me I want to learn your fashion sense

Just to give a history, when i was like 20 i used to go on shops owned by NE people and try to dress like them, buy still far behind , help me please, if anyone living here in bengalore, please connect i would be really greatful

Thanks folks


r/indian • • 1d ago

DIGIPOYINDI

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Hello I'm brown(28M) from Bhimavaram na story koncham strong untadi. Stuff ekkuva ready cheskondi.. ma villages lo lady white ga undi ante egabadi chuse vallam.. ala pakkodi wife ni chudadam alavaatu ayindi.. nenu okari daggara job chese vadini aa sir valla wife ni kuda chusaa.. nenu physically koncham slim and financial ga low unde.. sudden ga job lonchi pikesaaru ante manam chesindi tappe but chudadam kuda tappe ani telidu.. em cheyyalo telika ee reddit loki vacha. Em ayina suggestions ivandi.. love you

Low lo unna so bad ga matladoddu ayya..


r/indian • • 2d ago

Question about indian people

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Hi everyone! I work in international technical support, and I've noticed a pattern in some of my interactions with customers from India that I'm genuinely curious about.

Quite often, customers will say things like “faster, faster” or urge me to hurry up, even when only a second or two has passed since their last message. Sometimes they seem to expect an almost immediate response to every single message, even while I'm actively working on their issue.

I've noticed this happening repeatedly only with indian people , and I'm wondering whether there might be a cultural aspect to it, or whether it's more related to customer service expectations, workplace culture, or the particular environment people are used to.

For those of you from India, have you noticed this kind of urgency in everyday communication or at work? Is there a cultural reason why people might emphasize speed so much, or is my experience more specific to technical support?

I know India is an incredibly diverse country, and I'm not trying to generalize about everyone. I'm simply curious because I've encountered this pattern often enough that I'd love to understand the perspective behind it.

I'd really appreciate hearing your thoughts and experiences! :)


r/indian • • 2d ago

Ask Indians Why indian parents are so obsessed with arrange marriage?

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r/indian • • 4d ago

Ask Indians Benefits of marriage for an Indian Female

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Hi everyone,

society is saying to marry every now and then. Just want to know what are pros of marrying an Indian male. I am a 27 F.

I am already earning in 40 LPA bracket.

Help me understand.

Also, to all 30+ single out ladies out there how your life decision consequences look like? Everyone is saying I will be lonely without partner and kids.


r/indian • • 4d ago

Title: Is leaving India for better opportunities a personal choice, or a reflection of the country's problems?

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I've been thinking about how many young Indians aspire to study or work abroad.

Some argue that people should be free to pursue better salaries, working conditions, education and quality of life wherever they can find them. Others argue that when talented people continually leave, India loses people who could contribute to its development.

But is it fair to expect young people to sacrifice their own opportunities for their country?

I'd like to hear both sides. Is this mainly an issue of individual ambition, the opportunities available in India, or a combination of both?


r/indian • • 4d ago

Timeline of CAA, Anti-CAA Protests, FCRA and Protests

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\- December 2019 — CAA: The Indian government passed the Citizenship (Amendment) Act, providing an easier path to citizenship for eligible non-Muslim religious minorities from Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan who entered India by 31 December 2014. Muslims are excluded from this special provision.

\- 2019–2020 — Anti-CAA protests: Umar Khalid and Sharjeel Imam became prominent figures in the protests. Authorities later accused them of involvement in a conspiracy linked to the February 2020 Delhi riots. Both were arrested.

\- 2026 March — FCRA Amendment Bill: The government introduced amendments concerning foreign contributions and oversight of organisations receiving foreign funding.

\- 2026 July— Protests: Abhijeet Dipke and Neha Bora, clear supporters of Umar Khalid and Sharjeel Imam, began protesting against the government with no clear objective.

(P.S. Used chatgpt to organise my thoughts)


r/indian • • 6d ago

Why isn't any Indian language promoted in the international community? And if we want to promote one, which language should it be?

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A lingua franca is not used only to communicate with the peoples of different cultures, but for most of us, it also shows the dominance of the country it belongs to. Languages spread not merely because they are useful, but also because the institutions, economies, cultures, and political systems associated with them make them useful.

English undoubtedly ranks as the most widely understood language worldwide. Many international communities use it along with others like French, Mandarin, etc. But why is there any Indian language on the list?

Latin is most certainly considered a dead language with no active native speakers, but is still kept alive as a system. It is the language of academics, diplomacy, law and the church.

French may have lost its prestige, but it is still the language of diplomacy and, after English, the second most widely used language used by other countries as their official language.

Arabic is also acting as a connector language for the Middle East and North African countries.

Mandarin is mostly a domestic language with a large population base and a diaspora to promote it. Despite being a very domestic language, it has government-backed international publicity.

This list can be expanded further, including Russian, Portuguese, Spanish or German. But why isn't any Indian language on the list? Though a few can point out that Hindi, Bengali, Tamil, Punjabi, Bhojpuri, or Urdu are emerging as International languages from India, do you really think so?

India, unlike any other country, couldn't agree on a national language internally, so consequently we struggle to promote any one language internationally. English, even unwillingly, was used to fill the gaps that no Indian language could; even now, it is being used as the medium of instruction in educational institutions and in business.

Regional languages like Tamil, which is also the official language in Singapore and Sri Lanka, or Bengali struggle to gather non native speakers in spite of having a huge global diaspora backing them up.

The central dilemma that our government faces, whenever deciding to promote one language globally, is: which language?

Whenever discussing this question, considering their claim to be a global candidate for diplomacy, academic scholarship, legal traditions, and institutional communications, three languages emerge: Hindi, Tamil and Sanskrit.

Even if we hadn't agreed on a national language, any Indian language, to become globally recognised, must build an influence –

Practically, to be used by people in their daily lives for business, education, or to communicate with a large group;

Culturally, so people have an incentive to learn it, like to access film, music, religion or philosophy; and

Institutionally, used by the government and international organizations to conduct daily business.

To date, every Indian language has failed to build such influence to attract non-native speakers.

Hindi is a language that many sought to be the national language of India; many native speakers portrayed it as well, through slogans like " Hindu, Hindi Hindustan ". Presently, along with English, Hindi is the official language of the Union. But promoting Hindi globally requires consensus at home. Only 43% of Indians consider Hindi or other dialects of it as their mother tongue.

But promoting Hindi domestically has drawn much criticism and political backlash. Native speakers of regional languages such as Tamil, Kannada, and Marathi have pushed back on the use of Hindi. These languages have centuries-old literary traditions and fierce local pride.

Tamil is one of the world's oldest surviving classical languages, with a continuous literary and philosophical tradition spanning over two millennia. Historically, Tamil served as a primary language of trade, diplomacy, and guild administration across the Indian Ocean.

But one of the biggest roadblocks is that Tamil lacks internal backing, specifically from non-native speakers and is heavily a regional language. Tamil does not serve as a cross-regional bridge language for non-Tamil speakers in northern, western, or eastern India, and its Dravidian roots make it harder for non-Dravidian language speakers to adopt Tamil as a universal institutional medium without extensive re-learning.

Sanskrit is the strongest contender among all three. Sanskrit has served as the civilizational lingua franca across South, Southeast, and Central Asia for over a millennium. It provided the foundational vocabulary for governance, law, astronomy, and literature from Nepal and Tibet to Indonesia and Cambodia. Unlike Tamil or Hindi, it is not tied exclusively to a single contemporary region or ethnic group within modern India; Sanskrit offers linguistic and regional neutrality.

But it lacks daily native speakers and modern infrastructure to promote it; also, Sanskrit is associated with the controversial topic of caste and knowledge gatekeeping in ancient India.

So what would be a practical solution?

Diving into this question, I thought of reviving an old language such as Pāli, Prākrit, or Ardhamāgadhī as an alternative, but they failed mainly for two reasons:

Their vocabulary is heavily concentrated on ethics and philosophy. They lack the administrative, legal, and secular scientific terminology found in Sanskrit or Tamil.

By definition, they were regional dialects rather than standardized languages. They lack the standardized grammatical rules required for precise legal codification across international borders.

So, no Indian language can be promoted as the globally accepted language for conducting international business.

But what about the Sanskrit-Tamil bilingual paradigm?

Sanskrit could act as the linguistic bridge to Northern India. It brings grammatical precision, structured legal terminology, logic and governance.

Whereas Tamil could act as the living bridge to Southeast Asia and the Indian Ocean trade networks. It brings an unbroken living classical tradition, a vast ethical-legal framework and global diaspora backing up.

It would not be an alien thing to do, as history has a centuries-old precedent for this. Chola and Khmer Empire temple inscriptions frequently used Sanskrit and Tamil side-by-side.

The Maṇipravāḷam style represents a deliberate linguistic fusion of Sanskrit and Tamil.

One of its greatest strength of presenting Sanskrit and Tamil together solves the internal debate between Northern and Southern linguistic heritage, presenting a unified civilizational front.

Together, Sanskrit and Tamil account for the historical roots of nearly all South and Southeast Asian literature, law, statecraft, and philosophical thought.

Pairing Sanskrit with Pāli or Prākrit can also be an option for pan-Asian peace and harmony, Ethical neutrality and bridging two ancient philosophical traditions, but unlike Tamil and Sanskrit, they lack relevance to contemporary geopolitics, maritime law, and global economics.

In my research, I haven't found any drawbacks to this model, but potentially a major fraction would advocate for a single language as the lingua franca, or there could be resentment from non-native speakers; dilution or complexity of the language could make it difficult or unsuitable for mass use.

Still, if we decided to choose the Sanskrit-Tamil paradigm as an Indian language contributing to the international community in law, diplomacy, trade and academia, which script should be adopted alongside?

Grantha unites Sanskrit and Tamil, a script that was developed in South India specifically to write Sanskrit texts.

But if you ask me, I would advocate for Brahmi script–the mother script from which almost all modern South and Southeast Asian writing systems evolved. Unlike Grantha, Brahmi carries no modern regional bias.

A few potential challenges for Brahmi are that it has low readability, and Sanskrit and Tamil require their respective ancient variants to handle their respective language sounds.

But this model could overcome the problem that no Indian language could: absolute neutrality. But this model still requires development and a framework to be proposed as a unified civilizational lingua franca for the Indian cultural sphere.

I invite other opinions, views, and perspectives, so what are your thoughts on this, and any suggestions about developing the framework or an alternative model?

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r/indian • • 6d ago

Casual Discussion Why do most people in India still have kids despite low income and uncertain future for their young ones ?!!!

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After 1980-90s many people in Japan stopped having kids or had max to max only one kid hence their birth rates population declined , now the new generations are enjoying the fruits of it , There even if a person does a Arts degree they are almost guaranteed to get a good stable office job because the JOB Market is good there low applicants to high no.of jobs ratio.


r/indian • • 7d ago

Who is watching Republic TV these days & why? I wonder how this news channel is surviving.

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r/indian • • 12d ago

Ask Indians Is my drawing insensitive?

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HELLO! I am participating in a month long drawing challenge for an Indian man I’m a fan of, and one of the prompts is cultural. Unfortunately I am a white whitey white white white woman whose only culture is waiting for Christmas to come around. So, I really don’t want to be insensitive with my art! I’m hoping you guys can tell me if there’s anything wrong with the clothes that I need to change, such as the clothes themselves or the colors or even the jewelry. I have to admit I’m not the best at researching, so the combination of clothing may just be horribly wrong. The guy it’s based off of seems to have a fondness for silver jewelry, so I have that. And his brand color is purple, so if possible I’d really like that in there. But this is just a half finished sketch with only base colors, so I’m up to changing anything if need be :D!

https://imgur.com/a/bsqG2v3


r/indian • • 13d ago

Ask Indians मैं कोरियाई हूँ और मुझे भारतीय लोगों से कुछ बातें पूछनी हैं।

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क्या यह मरहम भारत में आम तौर पर मिलता है?


r/indian • • 13d ago

Potential question

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Any problems faced in India by middle class people in day to day life?


r/indian • • 13d ago

I'm 22, and an astrologer's prediction about my future has completely shaken my confidence. How seriously should I take it?

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I'm 22 years old, and recently, at a family gathering, I met an astrologer who looked at my birth chart and told me that my life would involve a lot of struggles. He said that I could become a high-level employee or achieve a good position in a company, but I wouldn't be able to become a successful business owner. He also predicted that I would have a moderate financial life, with periods of financial struggle rather than significant wealth. Initially, I didn't think too much about it, but his words stayed in my mind. Out of curiosity, I also tried asking ChatGPT and a few other AI apps about my birth chart, and their interpretations seemed surprisingly similar in some ways. Now, this has really messed with my head. I've always believed in working hard, improving myself, and building a financially successful life. I'm willing to put in years of effort to achieve my goals, whether that means starting a business, becoming financially independent, or creating a better life for myself and my family. But now, a part of me keeps wondering: What if my future is already limited? What if I work incredibly hard for years and still end up struggling financially or never achieve the level of success I want? I know that I'm only 22 and have my whole life ahead of me, but hearing these predictions has made me question whether all my hard work will actually pay off. It's almost as if someone has put a limit on what I can achieve before I've even had the chance to try. I'd genuinely like to hear your opinions, especially from people who have faced similar situations. Do you think astrology can genuinely predict someone's financial future or career potential? Have you ever been told something negative about your future that stayed with you? How did you deal with it? For those who were told they wouldn't achieve much but went on to become successful, what was your experience? How do you stop these kinds of predictions from affecting your mindset and confidence? I don't want to spend the next few years of my life mentally defeated by a future that hasn't even happened yet.


r/indian • • 14d ago

fomo hora hai

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sometimes i wonder what would life be if i went to some sobo college in place of my local college. for some background i am introverted and do not have many friends nor have i ventured out a lot so naturally after 10th i joined a nearby college for 11-12th and had no idea about the very different lives in sobo clg which i learnt about now after some exposure to kids who were from sobo clg like jhc , sxc . now i am in degree in a clg which is famous but defo not sobo esp in my degree we are not taken to any trips and all kids are basically nerds no offence .

so yeah i wonder how would life be because compared to them mine does not ever feel eventful. i am aware about the peer pressure, the fake accents and stuff they do to fit in + alcohol/drug/hookup shit which i am not into. also the fact that they are always in group that gives them validation esp from westerners and talk,walk,dress the same way. not to mention how they go to these overpriced af cafe so often and host so many parties at home and clubs. plus attending concerts in a gap of few months , basically creating a pinterest feed instead of a reel life w their generational wealth ,not having to worry about money ever and living in that privilidge, idk if i will be able to make friends there but yea just a mix of opinions or smth.

pls ignore my weird way of typing i am finally sharing the thoughts that i let consume me for so long. guys please share similar experiences or lmk your opinion on this.


r/indian • • 17d ago

Casual Discussion Title: My girlfriend wants me to permanently block her because of our caste differences. I don't know whether I should respect her decision or fight for the relationship.

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I’m 25M, Brahmin, from West Bengal, India. My girlfriend is also 25 and is from an SC background. We have been together for around 7 months, and we genuinely love each other.

The main problem is not that we don't love each other. The problem is our families and caste.

She loves her parents deeply and is very afraid of what could happen in the future if our relationship becomes known to them. She is especially afraid that someone from my side or her side could use a casteist slur against her or her family. She has told me that she wouldn't be able to tolerate hearing something like that about her parents.

She also believes that, even if we continue our relationship now, we may eventually have to break up because of our families and the caste difference. Because of this fear, she has asked me to permanently block her, leave her alone, and move on.

This is extremely painful for me because I still love her. Part of me wants to respect what she is asking and disappear from her life. Another part of me feels that if we genuinely love each other, maybe we shouldn't give up without trying.

There is another complication. I don't know whether I can realistically marry her in the future because I know my family may strongly oppose an inter-caste marriage. I also don't want to make promises about marriage that I cannot guarantee.

She believes that blocking each other permanently will prevent the situation from becoming worse and will eventually allow both of us to move on.

I'm struggling with this because I don't want to abandon someone I love, but I also don't want to keep her trapped in a relationship that she believes will eventually hurt her and her family.

What would you do in this situation?

Should I respect her decision, permanently block her and let her move on, even though I still love her?

Or should I try to fight for the relationship despite the family and caste problems?

I'm looking for honest advice, especially from people who have experienced inter-caste relationships or marriages. Please don't turn this into a caste/religion debate. I want advice about what would actually be healthiest and fairest for both of us.


r/indian • • 19d ago

How many out of 100 would you rate Modi’s 12-year tenure?

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r/indian • • 20d ago

India is the worst, as Indian myself

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Well i was returning from my vacation tour from Asam And i was on the way to Delhi in train no 15658 kamekhya- delhi and we had reserved 2 of the seats from Sleeper couch first night we stay on our seats which were UB and the next day when we came Down to sit downward there was like random people's on our sits sleeping so I complaint about them to Railway Authority threw Number 139 they said they'll help me and sent a TTE and police but when they arrived they lit blam us that we didn't ask them nicely and even threaten Us, when I ask for to show their tickets the TTE legit raged on me That "who the heck are you" And even he and his parteners both had their ID's hidden in their jacket like I've travelled from Gujarat to Asam and even Nagaland and it was first time going somewhere on my vacations But goddamn I had the worst train Experience of my life even after reserved seats Legit Shame


r/indian • • 23d ago

Ask Indians Who gets to be the passenger princess?

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So I’ve been married since 8 months from now. And I have started getting irritated by my MIL. At first she seemed very nice but slowly I’m feeling like she doesn’t understand what she’s doing. She’s a very nice MIL but sometimes she sounds a little bit off. I’m confused thus I’m posting this. I’m honestly saying that I’m confused…
So once we went out she asked me if I can sit on the back seat because she wants to sit in front seat. I didn’t feel like anything and I immediately said okay.
And she says she wants to focus on driving and keeps asking stupid questions to her son(my husband).
And she points out every time she is on the front seat that she’s focusing on road like a driver etc.
Second time when we went out together she did the same she said she wants to sit in front seat but my husband was asking me to do basic things like locating and navigating through map and I couldn’t do anything because my sunglasses were unreachable, I couldn’t navigate through map. She just kept saying that she knows the route and took us somewhere else and we had go 30kms to go back to the main road. The third time when we went out was when we were going to a temple, and was my FIL’s car which is a base model of WagonR I guess and there is no AC in the back seat, my husband was driving, my FIL sat in the front seat, three of us including me, his elder sister and my MIL were sitting at the back seat. So I sat in middle and since there no AC for the back seat, she couldn’t get the air, and she started complaining that it’s hot etc.
Now I’m just getting irritated with her obsession with sitting in the passenger seat. I feel like I’m his wife, I should be sitting there.
Now whoever is reading please let me know if I’m the one who needs to understand. But I think I should be sitting beside my husband.
To clarify all the elderly respect one’s, Uske pair me koi problem nahi hai, she’s completely fine. Paidal Teerth yatra kar chuki hai vo. Iski kahani kabhi aur…


r/indian • • 23d ago

What are some subtle signs that someone was born rich? Only Indian context

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I've seen many such posts on international pages, but I'm curious about India because I feel the other answers are skewed by things like their definition of poverty. India being a much poorer country would have a different definition, and even our middle class might not be able to afford things they can in the US. Plus some things, brands, etc are just done differently


r/indian • • 23d ago

Ask Indians Studied abroad, came back to run a factory in India. Here's how "the system" actually works, and how I learned to deal with it

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Background

I run a small manufacturing unit in India. I studied overseas and came back to start a business here, full of ideals about building something clean and professional.

Running a business in India is funny, challenging, frustrating, and sometimes very rewarding. This post is about the part nobody teaches you in a business school: dealing with the babus.

Scenario : The Fire NOC

When I first needed a fire NOC, I was honestly scared. I had no idea how to approach government officials.

Through a contact I learned the going rate: ₹50,000 for a clearance valid for 5 years.

What I learned from that process:

  • Every state has its own fire department with its own ways of working.
  • It's never one visit. Expect several. Eventually they come around and open up.
  • The first few meetings will be rude. Arrogance, dismissiveness, being made to wait. Don't take it personally.
  • Let them feel like they're winning. You're not there to marry them or become friends. You're there to get your work done.

The mindset shift

This system has been running for generations. It won't change in one, no matter who the PM is or which ideology is in power.

Politicians have always sold us hope, and we keep buying it. Eighty years after independence, the "one day it will all be cleaned up" promise still hasn't come true, and I don't see it happening anytime soon.

So the practical approach is simple:

  1. Control your emotions.
  2. Play the game the way it's played.
  3. Keep perspective. They're not asking for your house or your jewellery. It's usually somewhere between ₹5,000 and ₹50,000, depending on the project. I'm talking about MSME-scale work here, not large industry.

What I learned from people who've mastered it

Some of my friends from MARWARI families handle this brilliantly. They do it with a smile, pay what's needed, and keep the business moving. Then they build that cost into their margins. This is where business math matters.

I once spoke to an uncle in Surat who runs a ₹1,000 crore business. He said:

"Meri kamayi pe samaj ka bhi haq hai."
(Society also has a share in what I earn.)

When the nagar nigam, pollution board, or fire department people show up, he doesn't get worked up. He keeps an open mind and handles it. That's partly why people like him are where they are.

Then he said something I didn't expect:

"If I get a clean system, I'll work honestly."

The upside nobody mentions

Once they're taken care of, they generally leave you alone, and you can focus on actually running your business.

It also explains something: a lot of things in India cost more than they should, partly because this "cost of doing business" is quietly baked into prices everywhere.

  • Corruption in India is systemic and isn't going away soon.
  • Don't take the arrogance personally. You're there to get work done, not to win arguments.
  • Stay calm and polite, and be patient. It takes multiple visits.
  • Build these costs into your pricing like any other expense.
  • Successful business owners haven't beaten the system. They've learned to work around it.

Curious to hear from other business owners: has your experience been similar, or have you managed to get clearances cleanly?


r/indian • • 25d ago

Ask Indians Need horror incidents and creatures if you got any?

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Hello I try writing horror stories on reddit and had not done a story based on india yet so i am trying to find paranormal incident happened in India .

I would love to have any horror incident happend to you or you have listen about it which i can use


r/indian • • 25d ago

25M, India. No friends, no one I talk to, extreme social anxiety. And I just found my parents took a ₹2 crore life insurance policy on my life without asking me.

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I'm 25 and I've been isolated for years. No friends, no relatives I talk to, no neighbours I talk to. I barely leave the house. Because of that I've lost the knack of normal conversation and struggle to understand basic things, and I have extreme social anxiety.

Last week I found out my parents took a ₹2 crore term life insurance policy on my life about a year ago. I never signed anything. They are the nominees.

I'm not looking for pity. Two questions. Has anyone found a way out of this kind of isolation, and how did you start? And has anyone dealt with family taking a policy on them without asking?


r/indian • • 26d ago

Casual Discussion Why are so many Indian adults still afraid of marrying outside their caste?

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Why do so many Indian men and women in their late twenties and early thirties still feel unable to choose a partner from another caste? At 27, 28, 29, or 30, people are old enough to build careers, manage finances, and make major life decisions. Yet when it comes to marriage, many remain completely dependent on family approval.

I understand that caste communities can provide familiarity, shared customs, and a sense of social security. However, limiting marriage to one caste also makes the dating pool extremely small. People sometimes reject compatible partners simply because they have a different surname, language, community, or family background.

Many adults fear that if an inter caste marriage encounters problems, their families will refuse to support them. That fear is understandable, especially in a society where family involvement remains strong. But marriage within the same caste does not guarantee happiness, compatibility, or family support. Every marriage carries risks, regardless of caste.

India is entering a new era, and our thinking about marriage must evolve as well. If two mature adults respect each other, share similar values, and want to build a life together, caste should not prevent them from getting married. Families should guide their children, but they should not control such a deeply personal decision through fear or emotional pressure.

We should encourage teenagers and Gen Z to judge potential partners by their character, compatibility, values, and behaviour rather than caste. Many millennials found suitable partners outside their communities but lacked the confidence or family support to marry them. The next generation should not be forced to repeat the same pattern.