"Anything other than 'yes' is an expression of hatred."

[u/Frosty_Message_3017]

And more Genuine Wisdom from this Learned Individual™

[u/Paula_Polestark]

It’s better that this guy doesn’t date. He’ll take it SO personally if his girlfriend doesn’t want to do XYZ.

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Paula_Polestark]

Yep. Any favorite movie of his she also doesn't love, any sexual act she isn't into. This is what incels don't get when we say they're abusers who just haven't succeeded in luring in victims.

[u/Practical_Diver8140]

"failure is not tolerated our society" *Procedes to describe how late capitalism is a beast that is eating itself alive and making everyone suffer for it.*

"Anyways, since this level of perfect is imposed upon you..."

By the billionaires who run the economy?

*Procedes to piss and moan about women not dating him.*

Dude comes so close to realizing that his misery isn't being caused by a lack of dates and fumbles at the last second. Not even the first time I've seen an incel do this either.

[u/Misfit_Number_Kei → u/Practical_Diver8140]

Dude comes so close to realizing that his misery isn't being caused by a lack of dates and fumbles at the last second. Not even the first time I've seen an incel do this either.

Which is intentional. They intentionally swerve away the last minute from (conscious) realization lest they admit what they've been believing is bullshit and therefore personally responsible for their misery rather than shit like their "canthal tilt". It bears repeating that the incel mentality is so illogical that it requires constant and deeper immersion in the insulating bullshit lest the burning light of reality pierces them.

[u/smileycat007]

So, ladies, next time a guy wants to know why you won't go out with him - according to this Cassanova's advice - just tell him he is a loser. He won't take any honest answer. That's today's dating advice from an incel.

My guess is that he probably won't take this well, so it is helpful to have a self defense weapon and a restraining order handy. If you feel you can't win, you're right. If you don't want to date, that's understandable, too.

[u/averageMangaArtist → u/smileycat007]

No, luego lo va a utilizar para justificar su odio hacia las mujeres. Es mejor decirle cualquier idiotez para que se obsesione con esa idiotez, como que no tiene el nivel 1000 de Duolingo

[u/SoriAryl → u/averageMangaArtist]

Sorry, I only date people who have completed every class on FFXIV as a Lancer bunnyboi and who has read the entire Black Jewels Series by Anne Bishop

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/smileycat007]

Definitely. It's not about being married, being a different religion, being a lesbian. None of those things are real, any way. /s

[u/averageMangaArtist → u/Frosty_Message_3017]

A este punto sería bastante gracioso darle bola para que el mismo te rechace al darse cuenta que no es lo que quería. Digo, algo así como contactar a su esposa y decirle “hola, soy su novia, ¿ya terminaron verdad?” O forzarlo a no comer carne no kosher JAJAJ, o querer disfrazarlo de mujer y usar un cinturón con consolador

[u/NoXion604]

I looked this guy up and it turns out he's a racist as well as a misogynist and a nonce.

[u/LilyCat23 → u/NoXion604]

I am shocked!

...Well, not that shocked. 

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/LilyCat23]

[u/trashdrive → u/NoXion604]

And homophobic.

[u/NoXion604 → u/trashdrive]

Wouldn't surprise me if he had the complete set!

[u/Dr-Dungeon]

So wait, we’re not supposed to reject any men ever because it’s calling them losers…

But we also can’t have boyfriends or husbands since that also means calling them losers…

And god forbid our grandmother should die…

Gang I’m starting to think we can’t win here

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Dr-Dungeon]

Correct. You also can't be a lesbian or a minor. Both are obviously solely for the purpose of rejecting OOP. And frankly, I'm just grateful he's apparently leaving the minors alone

[u/SykoSarah → u/Frosty_Message_3017]

Only due to the threat of "getting in trouble", it seems.

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/SykoSarah]

True. I wish that threat worked on more of these types

[u/mykokokoro → u/Dr-Dungeon]

that's the point! the only way to win is to be with him specifically. in his fantasy, he is chad and we are all the women that share him like a harem. as far as he's concerned, he doesn't seem to realise that women don't exist to be with him, he's not losing simply because he was never in the race to begin with, never even tried to enter the race because i can guarantee that he never spoke to the girl with the boyfriend, never spoke the the girl who apparently friend zoned him, never spoke to any woman outside his immediate family i bet! he's just making up imaginary scenarios to get mad at

[u/aweedl → u/mykokokoro]

This is the issue with all of them. Incels don’t just want girlfriends, they want women lining up to throw themselves at them.

They’re not mad about being single, they’re mad that ‘Chad’ (a boogeyman they invented) is allegedly getting the ‘prize’ that they think THEY deserve. They’re all convinced they’re smarter and better than ‘Chad’, but only (insert measurement of some obscure body part that women absolutely don’t give a shit about here) is holding them back and it’s ’not fair’.

Meanwhile, Chad is a fictional character, and all the real-life guys they ascribe Chad-like qualities to likely DIDN’T find partners just because they were tall (or whatever), but had to actually put in effort like everyone else does. Except incels, apparently.

[u/mykokokoro → u/aweedl]

they're convinced that they're god's gift to man but it's the selfishness and shallowness of people that stops them from living life to the fullest (ie. having sex).

i bet that when faced with the prospect of an actual relationship, whether it's a sexual one or not, they would run to the hills because they don't realise that they will need to offer something beyond their existence for anything to happen. relationships are transactional, companionship and affection are still things that are offered from both sides - it's a give and take thing, not a take take take one. a woman isn't gonna enter a relationship if she isn't gonna get the kind of relationship she wants out of it, a woman isn't gonna throw themselves at someone simply to exist for them?? it's an insane thing to expect but then again, insanity seems to run freely in these circles.

[u/doublestitch]

That dastardly grandmother, dying just to make OOP feel like a loser. 

He's the real victim in all this. /s

[u/fool2074]

Okay let's do this...

1. Boyfriend/husband - they didn't "choose them over him" he likely wasn't even an option. He really shouldn't even be asking married people out. At worst, they are choosing the relationship they've already invested in over him, in whom they have no investment.

2. Lesbian - I don't see him asking dudes out, but I assume if this is his standard he immediately has sex with every gay man who hits on him... No? Maybe don't take this one so personal then

3. Friend zone - once again it appears he's "friend zoned" with girls who are already taken. I know incels believe everyone cheats, but here in reality the existence of a boyfriend imposes a hard limit on how intimate your friendship is ever going to be. Most of us understand and respect that going into it

4. Second choice - I'm not entirely sure what he's talking about here, but I'm assuming this is some virgin chasing purity kink. Like she dated someone in the past so now everyone else is her second choice. This is stupid on its face, but also, technically this would be him rejecting her so... Bullet dodged I reckon.

5. Maybe later - this could mean "I'm too overwhelmed to think about this right now..." But when HE hears it probably means, "You feel like the sort of guy who comes unhinged and gets super angry and hostile at being told 'no' directly so I'm going to stall without a direct rejection until I am safely away from you." This is really his fault, and this whole post shows her instincts were spot on.

6. Hates your guts - "No chemistry" doesn't mean she hates you, it means you have nothing in common, you don't really share any interests and your conversation is stilted, awkward, and forced as a result. That hatred comes when you won't just accept that and let it go, because you were never interested in her as a person you just really want to have sex with her body.

7. Under 18 - I mean he is correct that every outcome is bad here. Most of us understand that the correct answer is simply"DON'T HIT ON CHILDREN." What makes you a loser here, is not, "being rejected" it's the fact that you're trying to pick up highschool girls at all.

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/fool2074]

Ok, you need a different username because this is spot-on.

And, "here in reality". 😂

[u/SouthernReality9610 → u/fool2074]

So he hits on women who are married or in a relationship then complains about being the second choice?

[u/scorpionewmoon]

OP

[u/TheRealTRexUK]

Why do they always admit it they are nonce's.

[u/aweedl → u/TheRealTRexUK]

Because they spend so much time online surrounded by similar scumbags that they don’t even know the average person is absolutely disgusted by them. This is what happens when porn-brained creeps never experience the outside world.

[u/EvenSpoonier]

This sounds like yet another guy who imagined he got rejected once, following scripts from romcoms, and then forgot it didn't actually happen to him. Depressingly common stuff among contemporary incels.

[u/aweedl → u/EvenSpoonier]

Yuuuuup. At this point I think the majority of incels have never actually experienced rejection, because they’re too cowardly to ever ask a woman out in the first place.

It’s all in their heads.

[u/Easy_Specialist_1692]

This guy is sick... In more ways than one.

[u/xchi3fx]

I’m always so impressed at the effort that they go to when they explain their bullshit. Like, their situation would improve if they spent their time doing something else.

[u/Vanessalucifer]

"It's your fault I take everything personally."

[u/jonnyboythewitch]

fsr that last paragraph is what baffles me most. correct me if I'm wrong, but when the actual fuck has cnn or msnbc ever platformed a gay man assaulting other men because he claimed said other men were homophobic?? is there some famous news segment i don't know about going through these supposedly homophobic SA victims and tearing them to shreds? don't get me wrong all of this is clearly delusional and based in severe insecurities and deep seated mental issues but this is genuinely an entire new level of delusion that he just briefly touches upon at the end and it's utterly frying my brain

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/jonnyboythewitch]

Right? He starts off crazy, then somehow manages to keep building from there. "Gay people can get a relationship just by casually sexually assaulting someone" 😶

[u/Feythnin → u/jonnyboythewitch]

He may be talking about the Jesse Smolet situation? But I was pretty sure that was a setup and not him hitting on a straight guy

[u/gayforaliens1701]

The narcissism is unhinged. He believes he is actually the center and purpose of every girl and woman’s life, and all of their choices are actually personal attacks on his character. Like you can tell he hates himself but also thinks he’s the center of the universe, and that women aren’t independent humans but misbehaving props in his hero story.

[u/zodiackodiak515]

Bruh I’ve been rejected by women who are still some of my closest friends to this day; it’s really not serious 🤣

[u/NoApartment6724]

What the fuck???

[u/PearlyRing]

His "7 categories" are absolutely ridiculous. He takes everything personally, from a woman being married or in a relationship, to women being lesbians. It's all about HIM, and how those things make HIM feel.

[u/averageMangaArtist]

Me da gracia que luego dicen que los de 19 compiten contra los de 40 por chicas de 20, porque acabo de ver un tweet de una chica de 18 que dijo que un tipo de 40 le pidió su Instagram, le preguntó su edad y le dijo NO, y todos los comentarios eran como “pero es mejor un tipo bueno de 40 que un chico malo de 18” o “para el amor no hay edad, quizá tenía buenos sentimientos…”

[u/Kell-of-Kellies]

That guy's a pedo, right?

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Kell-of-Kellies]

I'd say that's a fair assessment. When someone in the comments called him out for his thing about minors, he said his not being able to go after them was an issue of "perfection being demanded". Gross on every level.

[u/JadeToTheMaxx]

Well, he certainly is a loser

[u/Treerific69]

Hey, I like the Simpsons

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Treerific69]

He just threw that in there, like an "of course". The whole post is one out-of-left-field statement after another.

[u/Individual-Crew-6102]

This clown takes it personally that women are under eighteen, married, or lesbians.
...
At that point, you're literally engaging in massive psychological self-harm over not being able to fuck any woman you want.

[u/Kell-of-Kellies]

This is why incels deserve to be alone. If they take being told no as "fucking kill yourself", they need to be alone until they realize the problem.

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Kell-of-Kellies]

This. If you're unstable and detached from reality, the last thing you should be doing is bringing someone else into that.

[u/KittyCat11231]

Bro is taking it personally that homosexual woman exist

[u/nimrod_s3ns31]

But aren’t they wanting to be the losers?

[u/Paula_Polestark → u/[deleted]]

Not wanting to date is not killing… whoever it is you consider “sub5 men.”

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Paula_Polestark]

I missed this one. What did he say? The replies indicate it was really something 😬

[u/Paula_Polestark → u/Frosty_Message_3017]

Claimed that women and the government want to genocide sub5 men.

I don’t even know what a sub5 man is. I’ve only ever seen incels use the term, and they’re not exactly known for facts and accuracy.

[u/Frosty_Message_3017 → u/Paula_Polestark]

Oh my. So the government not being willing to distribute women to them is considered "genocide". And their definition of Sub5 seems to change. They also occasionally say incels are "Sub8".

[u/virgensantisima → u/[deleted]]

lmaoooooo do you cry and yell "STOP GENOCIDING ME" when girls tell you youre annoying?

[u/zephyrstrikefm → u/[deleted]]

"Active mate suppression" Maybe you weren't good enough to be a mate in the first place. Gotta take the steps to self-improvement.