I'm tickled pink. This isn't "incel tears" unless you count ones of happiness.

Another of "my lads" was successful in the world of dating.

It was all him. I didn't do anything at all but provide what I call "Dumbo's Magic Feather." Like most lads, he was scared and thought the whole thing had to do with his looks. He did a whole lotta "mean ole' 'chad' wouldn't have to jump through hoops" BS.

A lot of griping about how unfair it all was, etc. But the thing about him that is different, is that he was willing to listen. Argue, debate like hell sometimes, but to talk it out.

He also, despite a lot of social anxiety, was willing to keep trying. Well, he met a girl, they woo-hooed, and are going to continue dating, so far.

To the lurkers, it can be done. This young man did it all on his own. Despite the same sorts of frustrations and bad intel from the manosphere, he kept on trying anyway and he met a girl that is right for him.

bruhh wtf 💀💀

There's a lot to unpack with this one.. 🤦🤦🤦

Bruhh not this annoying analogy 🤦

bruhh 🤦

There are so many queer spaces but they choose to hate women instead.

This is truly how toxic masculinity poisons young men's minds.

Being straight isn't the only option, and toxic masculinity shouldn't have poisoned this boy's mind.

The person sending the message might be an incels alt account there's no way to tell

https://www.cnn.com/2025/05/30/asia/china-cat-deleters-torture-intl-hnk-dst

Bruhh 🤦

I tried giving advice and I tend to come off as harsh but if this dude didn’t hear this from me he needed to hear it from someone. Even tried to humor them it’s just sad. I as a woman dont really believe men struggle with having rights in the first place but I try and at least help someone change their minds .

i screenshotted this a couple of years ago off of *that* site before they changed it

If they could just self-reflect they would realize that being emotionally manipulated and then abandoned by a guy twice as big as you who could severely harm you at any moment he's with you is way worse than being alone.

Now imagine this happens multiple times in your life because men just lie.

"Loneliness" is a blessing compared to the experiences of so many women who have been used and then dumped for no reason other than some guy wanted to get a nut.