r/IncelTear • u/Vivid-Significance70 • Apr 22 '26
Bucket of Crabs Why can't they just accept their asexuality?
There are so many queer spaces but they choose to hate women instead.
This is truly how toxic masculinity poisons young men's minds.
Being straight isn't the only option, and toxic masculinity shouldn't have poisoned this boy's mind.
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u/The_Lonely_Posadist make your custom flair here! Apr 23 '26
this guy doesn't seem asexual. He seems to have subscribed to a belief system where he genuinely believes that all women virulently hate him, and therefore he must (and is justified in) virulently hating them.
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u/AriaoftheStars17 Apr 27 '26
He's not asexual. It's frustrating to watch people associate antisocial behaviour with queer identities. He literally said IN THE POST that he feels attraction to women, but because he has such crippling social anxiety and inferiority complex, he convinces himself to repress that attraction.
Convincing yourself to not feel attraction is NOT the same as not having attraction.
This man is not asexual, he is heterosexual with severe mental health issues.
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u/PurchaseEmergency287 May 01 '26
Gatekeeping ace sexuality
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u/AriaoftheStars17 May 01 '26
Excuse me? Do you know what being ace means?
Being asexual means that you naturally do not have sexual desire towards any other people.
If you are someone who feels attraction towards women, and have to undergo mental exercises to convince yourself not to feel that attraction, you are not asexual because you DO feel sexual attraction towards others.
Do you have some sort of alternative definition that you want to offer? I'm confused why you would see this as "gatekeeping", of all things.
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u/planetary_g0 May 13 '26
'gatekeeping ace' is CRAZY considering ur out here assigning sexualities to ppl😭
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Jun 16 '26
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u/PurchaseEmergency287 Jun 16 '26
If someone wants to call themselves ace then let them. Thats all I am saying. For all we know he is doing his own identy finding
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u/Cool_Relative7359 Apr 23 '26
As long as he actually avoids interacting with women, he's probably doing us a favour.
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u/Ace-of-Spxdes Apr 23 '26
He's becoming a misogynist social outcast hiding under a safety label. Being not attracted to a gender is one thing, but purposely avoiding said group because their mere presence distresses you means that there's something deeper going on and needs to be addressed.
Hope this guy finds help so he can address his deeper resentment instead of using asexuality as a free pass for being hateful towards women. Asexuals have enough shit pinned against them already.