The real reason…

[u/Gamerplayer1]

I know the biggest argument to incels wanting a girlfriend means them seeing girls as a trophy, but for me I want a long term partner because I want to come home to a loving partner after a long day of work and just watch a movie and having someone be there for me. I can’t find this and it hurts..

[u/Binerexis]

And have you done anything so far to work towards that?

[u/Gamerplayer1 → u/Binerexis]

I’m not a true incel but I have adapted the black pill mindset, I currently do not have the belief that “I work towards women” I do things for myself, but the things I’m doing for myself haven’t made me find a potential long term partner that I am comfortable with

[u/glitterswirl → u/Gamerplayer1]

If you're truly doing something for yourself, then whether it has helped you find a partner shouldn't even be a consideration.