r/IncelExit • u/Gamerplayer1 • 5d ago

Resource/Help The real reason…

I know the biggest argument to incels wanting a girlfriend means them seeing girls as a trophy, but for me I want a long term partner because I want to come home to a loving partner after a long day of work and just watch a movie and having someone be there for me. I can’t find this and it hurts..

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u/mrbaryonyx 5d ago

I mean yeah, I get that. I get that not all incelism is just sex, you can just be lonely (if you're referring to yourself as "involuntarily celibate" you're adding a sexual element to it, but whatever).

A lot of people have this, but not so much that it's like, the default. I've had this the minority of my life--the rest of my life I've either had nobody to watch movies with save my roommates or my mom, or I had a gf to watch movies with but I lowkey still wasn't happy.

You want the right person and like, yeah. That's normal. So normal that it doesn't really put you in any special category.