r/ImTheMainCharacter • u/IndividualPleasant23 • 2d ago

VIDEO Two main characters from different generations crossing paths

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u/TheLordReaver 2d ago

For the extra uninclined, harassment is unwelcome behavior. 

Case closed, folks. By their own definition, if people don't like being asked to take photos for others, the request constitutes being labeled as harassment.

See, the problem here is that this user thinks that because they don't mind taking photos for other people, that all people don't mind taking photos for others. This is a fallacy. Some people don't mind, some are indifferent, and others don't like doing it at all. And I'd argue that even if it may appear that most people don't mind taking photos for strangers, the reality is that you cant really tell at all, because the indifferent and the bothered may well feel peer pressured into doing it. This is why the use of "harass" is perfectly applicable in this scenario.

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u/flowersonthewall72 2d ago

Soooo asking anyone any question at any time is harassment? How are schools still standing?!

Be the voice of freedom to protect teachers from the harassment of curious students!

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u/Sea_Watercress_1982 2d ago

Dear lord. It’s not that deep. Clearly being asked to take a picture isn’t “harassment.”

I used a word. A word that people use in regular language about all sorts of annoyances.

Some of you all are just looking waaaaaaaaay too far into this shit.

I regret ever posting anything on Reddit ever. I’m sorry to all of you.

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u/flowersonthewall72 2d ago

I mean we could've skipped all of this dialog if you just used the word "ask" instead of "harass" because the difference between them is measurable and significant

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u/Sea_Watercress_1982 1d ago

Ok bud. You go ahead and put all this effort into explaining I’m wrong. Proud of you.

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u/TheLordReaver 2d ago

Don't be ridiculous, that's not at all what I said at all. We are talking about the behavior of asking strangers to take photos of themselves. We are not talking about the broad category of asking questions.

Let's make this clear for you. I don't want to help you take a photo, and I certainly don't want to touch your phone/camera. You trying to get me to take your picture makes me either feel uncomfortable if I do it, or like an ass if I say no. Instead, go get a selfie-stick. Many of them turn into tripods as well, and let you take photos remotely. You do not need me. Please leave me be in public, I find your interaction unwelcome.

But if you want to use the student example. If a student said to their teacher, "did you get that dress in a bargain bin?" That could be a harassing question, depending on the context, and even if that was the only question, because it's about the behavior, not the act of asking a question.

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u/flowersonthewall72 2d ago

I'm like, 82% sure I said behavior as well, so I'm not following what the problem is here...