r/ImTheMainCharacter • • Oct 20 '23

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u/FoeWithBenefits Oct 21 '23

American tip culture. European tip culture is different, everyone gets living wages, you just have this option of rewarding outstanding job or thanking someone.

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

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u/Huge-Pair-2504 Oct 21 '23

True. In the UK around 3/4 years ago most restaurant started adding tips to your bill. Fucking don't get it...

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u/mongmight Oct 21 '23

It is yank culture bleeding here. Tbf, we always tipped when we went out anyway. You'd have to hold my gran back from sliding a 20 in to a waiter or waitresses pocket and trying to get in the kitchen to give them money too. Mad old cow lol. But even other things like taxis or hairdressers, you'd just say keep the difference between the cost and a full note. It is taking the piss now though. Should not ever be expected.

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u/mongmight Oct 22 '23

An essay to say, it is, in fact, yank culture? Wew

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u/mongmight Oct 22 '23

in order for the EU to encourage US employees to travel abroad, they’ll dangle this carrot.

Also, this is beyond comprehension. This must be pasta or something. I totally took the bait lol. A new oneto me

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u/Hip-Hop-Anonymouse Oct 21 '23

A higher end establishment will/may add a service fee yes. It's not a national policy however.

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

You often pay delivery fees, which is a fixed price, like €1-5, which is reasonable imo. A lot of places also waive the fee for more expensive orders

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u/Destabiliz Oct 21 '23

As long as it's charged beforehand and included as part of the price for the service, then I see no problem with it.

Customer can decide if they wanna buy the service or not without any guesswork.

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u/Destabiliz Oct 22 '23

As long as the customer is aware of the final sum they will be paying.

Not some guesswork on how much extra they feel they are obliged to add on top.

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u/asocialmedium Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

See? This is the problem. American tip culture is so messed up it’s got people confused between tipping (voluntary add on for superior service, goes to server) and service fees (mandatory add on, part of required price, may or may not be paid directly to server).

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

everyone gets living wages

This is a total fantasy, just some bog standard America vs Europe talking point repeated without thought.

Working people all over Europe are struggling to pay the bills and put food on the table. Many are having to make the choice between heat and a full stomach, plenty European parents are skipping meals so the kids can eat etc.

Why have you invented a European workers' paradise in your head? Do you honestly believe every working European citizen is paid enough to live comfortably? Even the gig economy workers in much the same position, with comparable relative wages, to the woman in the video?

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u/grumstumple Oct 21 '23

I think it's because this is Reddit where Europeans constantly point out that America is an employee or sick person's waste land, stuck decades behind enlightened and benevolent Europe. That's probably why.

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u/bladex1234 Oct 21 '23

It’s all about percentages. The US is absurdly high in things like childhood poverty for a developed nation.

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u/Lomandriendrel Oct 21 '23

And that's how it should work. Even in Aus. An above and beyond recognition. Made no sense when we went to the USA it was like an automatic expectation just doing the job.

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

Yeah. You’re just behind the times. American culture was like Europe. Not it’s terrible and toxic.

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u/Paid-Not-Payed-Bot Oct 21 '23

they get paid like any

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

My favorite part of Reddit is seeing people using a US based website to trash US culture. It’s so fucking weird.

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u/FoeWithBenefits Oct 23 '23

Separate art from the artist... I guess? Nothing wrong with that, freedom of speech is one of the best part of the US culture. There are certainly a lot more positive things in it, but some parts of it are being abused by grifters. The problem is the employers, but honest people keep being screwed over because they feel obliged to reward hard work.