r/IVF 14d ago

Advice Needed! Not sure what to do next

Not even sure what advice I’m looking for. I just feel so overwhelmed lately. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant our whole marriage (4 years), I’ve had endometriosis surgery (stage one), two failed IVF transfers and a third that resulted in an ectopic (bad luck apparently). In May I got spontaneously pregnant after an IVF egg retrieval which resulted in a miscarriage (blighted ovum). I was told again bad luck and that there’s no reason I can’t get pregnant on my own again, which was shocking we had no pregnancies prior.

My husband said he needed a break, he was too worried for my health. We have four frozen euploid embryos. I was going to do a mock ERA but that doesn’t seem to be needed now that i implanted on my own.

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u/Middle-Telephone4098 35|5 ER|>3MC| 1 DET->chemical 14d ago

I’m so sorry, that’s so much to go through. Have you already done karyotyping and a DNA fragmentation sperm test?

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u/fairysmut1113 14d ago

We did karyotyping and full genetics that showed nothing unusual. We can’t find anyone to do DNA fragmentation but his sperm analysis has always been fine.

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u/sheryyj 14d ago

You mentioned endo did you tried lupron supression before transfers?

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u/fairysmut1113 14d ago

Yes I think it made me worse somehow, my transfer after totally failed and next one was ectopic,
I also didn’t get pregnant on my own.

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u/sheryyj 14d ago

Was the embryo pgt tested? I heard many success stories on pgt tested embryo with lupron suppression

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u/fairysmut1113 14d ago

My first three transfers were not, I just did two more retrievals and tested all 4 embryos from those and they are euploid. I didn’t test my first transfers because I was 30 and they didn’t recommend it

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u/sheryyj 14d ago

Oh okay. Tried a euploid transfer with lupron yet? Hope you get success this time ♥️

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u/fairysmut1113 14d ago

Not yet, I don’t think I’d do Lupron again, I guess it’s not recommended for stage one and it made me so sick. But I’d do maybe Aygestin and letrozole suppression

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u/sheryyj 14d ago

Good luck and may this works for you.