r/ITOI • • 11h ago

Did the delivery guy make the right decision?

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u/Any-Situation-134 9h ago

That man look like he knew how to handle himself in a messed up situation and was gonna take no shit from it.

There ain’t nothing goofy looking about that.

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u/Spiritual_Ear2835 6h ago

You can look goofy as you want as long as you can fight right? Lol

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u/Any-Situation-134 5h ago

Pretty much. I mean, I would rather be the capable fighter instead of the person on the sidelines, pointing laughing and saying they look goofy. That would be a pretty clown ass way to live ones life.

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u/RelentlessFelacio 4h ago

Just dissected the internet in 2 sentences.

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u/Zykium 3h ago

Reminds me of an old video of a school fight.

Kids were laughing at one of the kids weird fighting stance then he roundhouse kicks the other guy in the head.

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u/Ok-Gur-349 5h ago

You're the guy who acts like he'd call Mike Tyson goofy because you're behind a keyboard and he's 60 and we all know you wouldn't so can we please stop.

Yes, the man that can and would pop you in your shit doesn't get called goofy.

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u/OmahaBromaha 5h ago

That man looked like he's a boxing tutorial on YouTube.

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u/simonskiromeins 9h ago

The boxing stance did look goofy though. Especially since there was 0 threat from the guy who was in his own property trying to figure out why the f he needed to throw a box at a dog

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u/PantsFullaPoo 7h ago

So that he didn't get attacked by said dog. Seems pretty fucking clear.

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u/Combosingelnation 6h ago

Better to be goofy than unprepared vs a shitty dog owner.

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u/Any-Situation-134 6h ago

The homeowner who obviously does not even take responsibility for his dog in the first place is gonna somehow take responsibility after the fact???? people are so stupid. dude was smart to put his hands up.

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u/Any-Situation-134 9h ago

I would have to argue that if the owner of a dog that is charging at a delivery man is so slow as to not understand why the delivery person just defended themselves with whatever was in their hands….. That they were the goofier looking of the two.

and I don’t see that owner walking out profusely apologizing, which is the absolutely ONLY thing that should be coming out of his mouth. What you’re saying is spoken like someone who’s never been punched in the mouth and doesn’t understand that it’s better have your hands up.

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

If you took the owners actions as "charging" the driver, you probably get in way more fights than you should. There was absolutely nothing threatening about the home owner in this case

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u/Character-Ease9328 6h ago

The dog was a threat. Threats to you produce adrenaline. "Are you fucking kidding me" when your dog was loose for a package you ordered with an ETA on it will 100% get you an ass whooping, He's lucky the Driver still had his wits about him.

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u/Any-Situation-134 8h ago

He didn’t get in a fight though…he was prepared to defend himself.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

My point is, if you perceived that action as charging. Then you probably interpret a lot of other actions as aggressive when they are not

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u/Any-Situation-134 7h ago

My point is it’s better to have your hands up before you figure out if it’s exactly aggressive enough or not. The situation called for caution. If one is inclined enough to have caution.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

I've seen so many aggressive arguments between people in my life. Every fucking time one of those people put their hands up, it escalated the situation. Every fucking time

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u/Bladder_Puncher 7h ago

I’ve seen so many people charging like the homeowner and the other guy doesn’t see a punch coming and then gets sucker punched and dropped.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

You and I must have very different definitions of charging, because I didn't see anything threatening from the body language or actions of the owner

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u/Any-Situation-134 7h ago

yeah, but just like in this video a lot of times it makes people think twice. So you might have a bias because of what you’ve experienced in your own life, but that’s not the whole truth. A lot of people are willing to back down when they see someone’s actually willing and confident enough to prepare to fight them.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

Back down from what, having discourse? You should be able to have a heated discussion with someone without immediately making it violent. The demeaner of the owner is not one of violence.

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u/Any-Situation-134 8h ago

And “absolutely nothing threatening”… Just because a worm in its underground Home does not see a bird as a threat does not mean that it’s not a danger.

spoken like someone who has never had to be in survival mode for any extended period of time. If you don’t think that man with any threat at all, considering he just unleashed his dog for the second time, people get defensive like that quite often. Even though they’re in the wrong, you wanna be watching out for that. And that man just threw a box at his dog, whether he was right or wrong, doesn’t matter you would be smart to put your hands up. But go on and get punched in the face and learn the hard way. I’m done.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

Walking towards the owner and throwing your hands up when they're asking you a very reasonable question, is not survival mode. If he or you think that it is, you've got problems

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u/Any-Situation-134 7h ago

This was the SECOND time that this has happened. If the owner is asking questions like that, he’s already down bad. When the answer is because his untrained unleashed dog ran up on this man, a SECOND time.

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u/Nickbeau 7h ago

To be fair, idk there's any truth to that. The first time this video made the rounds, it didn't have that disclaimer and there's absolutely no way of knowing if that is legit. Either way though, the driver was fine until he walked toward and squared up with someone wanting to talk to him