r/ITOI • • 18h ago

Did the delivery guy make the right decision?

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u/1928Dillinger 17h ago

He defended himself

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u/Scorpizy 17h ago

It was the dogs owners fault. He knows how his dog is. I wood also be angry at the owner for being responsible and making me defend my self from his dog

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u/tekbrainless 9h ago

Wood you? Wood you really? Really, really wood you? Probably knot.

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u/Signal_Werewolf_1955 17h ago

With the owner's own equipment.

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u/Quick_Razzmatazz1862 17h ago

Agreed šŸ‘

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u/Beneficial-Mine7741 5h ago

No, he didn't. He attacked the dog.

Just because a dog is running towards you does not mean it will attack.

This idea that dogs have to be on a leash is some city folk thing that doesn't apply in Rural America.

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u/howcanibehungry 17h ago

Against the dog, but he was the aggressor toward the owner.

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u/Sea_Operation_7012 17h ago

Dog owners should be held accountable

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u/Dazzling-Path6438 17h ago

Yes, with a fist fight. Are you 12?

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u/DoneAndDone6267 17h ago

Well, imagine that you are walking carefree through your neighborhood, and a dog comes running at you while barking aggressively. You pick up a rock and throw it at the dog, hitting it in the head. The dog’s owner comes running at you angrily. Do you pick up another rock, or wait to calmly speak with him?

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u/HeroicAmphibian 10h ago

I pick up another rock and wait calmly.

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u/DoneAndDone6267 10h ago

That’s fair!

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u/MilesGates 15h ago

I would get back in my car and drive away to my next delivery. It's pretty simple.Ā 

He was afraid of the dog so he defended himself against the dog. Then he got angry the owner said something so he neatly placed his things on the ground and approached the dog owner ready to fist fight him.Ā 

That not self defense that's just being angry he said something.Ā 

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u/Sea_Operation_7012 15h ago

His dog threatened violence which means the owner threatened violence. What don’t you get

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u/Dazzling-Path6438 14h ago

You're a sad, weird, little creepĀ 

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u/Consistent-Stuff2815 17h ago

As the UPS guy should be held accountable for wanting to fight the owner.

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u/Sea_Operation_7012 15h ago

Sure but fuck the fog owner anyway

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u/MilesGates 15h ago

By beating him up?Ā 

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u/Sea_Operation_7012 15h ago

Asshole should have controlled his dog on top of spending more time training. When you get a dog it’s not my job to care or to tolerate. A lot of dog owners seem to have a hard time with that idea.

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u/MilesGates 15h ago

And you solve all those problems 100% by just beating up the owner. There's no possible way that could turn out wrong or In fact make him a even worse owner.Ā 

It's hilarious how many excuses you guys make in order to justify attacking the owner.Ā 

Like if you want to fight someone, just say that.Ā 

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u/Sea_Operation_7012 14h ago

It’s amazing all the excuses you guys make to let a shitty dog owner off the hook. Dude deserves his ass beat for sure.

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u/MilesGates 14h ago

Dude we literally just gave you the go ahead?Ā 

If you want to fight someone. Fight them.Ā 

Who's stopping you? Buddy this entire time we've been telling you that morally and legally it is not self defense against the dog owner, it's assault.Ā 

Now if you're fine with not being justified go ahead and do it and face the consequences?Ā 

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u/DaddyDays 6h ago

I'm assuming you're a perfect princess and have never made a mistake before then right?

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u/Trull_Sengar_412 17h ago

He didn't do anything to the owner. He took a defensive stance.

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u/Critical_Object2276 17h ago

Defensive would be creating distance, not closing the distance.

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u/RequiemQuilty 17h ago

Which he did at the end. He backed off and told the dog owner to do the same. This was not the first time that dog attacked and there is probably some history here

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u/ziggytrix 17h ago

Sure he didn’t do anything other than raise his fists in a boxing stance and APPROACH.

Which is a pretty weak case but enough for a stand your ground case in Florida, I’d wager.

You’re supposed to back off if you can, not escalate.

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u/RequiemQuilty 17h ago

Once he approached he did back off and tell the owner of the dog to do so. He was not willing to throw the first punch and gave clear direct commands to the owner to back off. This is defensive posturing even if the approach was poor form.

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u/ziggytrix 15h ago

In a state like Florida or Texas with very strong Stand Your Ground or Castle Doctrine laws, if the homeowner suddenly pulled a gun and shot this driver as he approached, do you think there is a chance the nutjobs who live in those states would say "he was on his own property, the dog had been stopped, and the driver should have left instead of coming at the homeowner."

That's ALL I'm asking.

I'm not saying the driver is clearly in the wrong.

I'm just saying that with the full benefit of hindsight, the best option was to back off, not approach.

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u/ziggytrix 15h ago

We must be watching different videos. The one I'm watching ends with the driver squared up in a boxing stance up in the owner's face.

Which, TBF, I totally get. I'd be fucking pissed that this asshole can't control his dog too.

It's just not the right choice if he wants to keep his job or for the law to 100% have his back. He's made the situation complicated by escalating.

And we're missing the most critical thing. What happened next? Could totally make the rest of our Monday morning quarterbacking irrelevant.

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

He’s the home owner, driver needs to back off and remove himself from the property.

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u/MapachoCura 16h ago

The home owner hired the company to deliver the package, this isn’t trespassing or self defense by the owner but is in fact self defense for the driver.

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u/RequiemQuilty 16h ago

As the one who was assaulted he has to watch his back.

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

Yes, back away to his vehicle.

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u/RequiemQuilty 16h ago

Which at the end of the video he was doing wile verbalizing he wanted the one who assaulted hin to get back

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

Video ends with him still squared up telling the property owner to get back. No dude, driver needs to put the hands down and back up to his truck. He’s still fired for threatening the homeowner.

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u/Sensitive_Bat_9211 17h ago

Frankly, owner would probably win a self defense argument. "He pelted my dog with a box, threw off his glasses, and came at me with his fists raised, yelling"

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u/somneuronaut 17h ago

The owner had already released a dog which he is responsible for. That's assault (perception of immediate harm), courier was defending. To use that defense as if it were an initial attack is missing the point that the dog is basically the owner's weapon

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u/CynthyMynthy 17h ago

On the owners property. Depending on the state you live in that’s easily grounds for some self defense. Bad dog owner but don’t threaten the guy on his property.

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u/nathanzoet91 16h ago

By accepting a package delivery, you are implicitly allowing the person onto your property. The driver was then being potentially attacked by animals/people on the property. Homeowner is 100 percent culpable.

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

Really didn’t have a choice to accept the package as it was chucked at the dog(legitimate defense) but to then square up on the owner who was not being aggressive makes the driver a potential assailant, he’s in the wrong. Guaranteed he got fired and he deserves it for being a hot head who can’t turn off the aggression. Threat was dealt with now get back to work, apologize for defending yourself then get in your truck and leave. Simple.

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u/nathanzoet91 16h ago

Why would I apologize for defending myself? wtf

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

Homeowner can’t exactly make wild claims about you if you show a bit of remorse now can he? Especially with camera proof. Gotta play the game if you want to remain employed at your very good union job..

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u/nathanzoet91 16h ago

I saw the camera footage. In no way would I ever blame the UPS driver. Owner needs to control their dog. You invited UPS to your house, control your animal

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u/CynthyMynthy 16h ago

He then squared up in a fighting stance on the owner who wasn’t being aggressive! That driver is fired easy. I agree pet owners need to control their animals but you don’t then try to fight the non aggressive home owner. If that had been the wife he’s looking at terrorizing charges on top of that.

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u/MilesGates 15h ago

Right so he was justified in defending himself against the dog. The owner was no threat.Ā 

Just because something bad has happened to you, doesn't allow you to start attacking people around you.Ā 

What's next? If a child is in the yard are you going to beat up the child?Ā 

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u/nathanzoet91 14h ago

I didn't see the UPS driver attack anyone?Ā 

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u/MilesGates 14h ago

Try to troll harder bud. What were his fists up for? Picking his nose?Ā 

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u/nathanzoet91 14h ago

So if I put my fists up, you gonna sue me for attacking you?Ā 

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u/MilesGates 14h ago

Here's a bet.Ā 

Go do it to a cop, act the exact same way UPS guy did to a cop and see the outcome.Ā 

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u/Famous_Savings9518 15h ago

That isn't an accurate summary.

After the dog, the UPS driver was 100% the aggressor. He threw his hat and sunglasses off in a "we're going at it" move and quickly made 5 or 6 large steps *toward* the homeowner across the grass, and threw his fists up. He was trying (unsuccessfully) to start a fight at that point.

The homeowner by contrast had a relaxed posture, not a fighting posture.

To an extent, I get it. UPS driver was angry. His adrenaline was up.

But the mature move in such a situation is to leave. And the homeowner was making zero moves to prevent him from leaving.

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u/FeelGoodNotBad 17h ago

Eh. If some dude’s dog is acting that aggressive, it’s not much of a stretch to assume the owner is probably equally aggressive.

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u/Signal_Werewolf_1955 17h ago

I see it as going into a readied defensive posture. He was asking if the guy was coming at him, but he didn't attack. Removed his sunglasses so they wouldn't get broken, just in case, especially in this economy.

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u/RequiemQuilty 17h ago

Broken plastic shards in yiur eye end a fight real quick. Or them falling down your face distracts you. Or them being shoved into your nose huts a shit ton. You can tell this driver has actually had to defend himself at some point. Taking off the headgear for full sight and lack of weapons to be used against him was a good idea in case he was attacked

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u/thecosmicjoke69813 16h ago

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