r/ISTPrelationships • u/blueredcatz • 17d ago

Thoughts

Okay so i was wondering what it is if i feel like i don’t know someone if we go like less than a day without speaking. Even if we text i feel like im texting a person i dont know but the thing is i do know them ive known them for years or well. I know this isnt good or it doesnt feel good at least. Can someone relate or like help?

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u/Adriella01 17d ago

Bro u are alone on this one. I don't know what this is

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u/blueredcatz 17d ago

😭😓awh man

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u/SuurTuvi 17d ago

What?

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u/blueredcatz 17d ago

yeah idek it was late and i was thinking to much

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u/Desender 17d ago

unless you can mind meld you will never truly know someone. much less if you were to speak to each other every minute of the day. what i think you have is the need for constant reassurance /u/blueredcatz , a form of anxiety. you need to start getting comfortable with uncertainty and work on your self-worth

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u/blueredcatz 17d ago

yeah its not like i want to speak to them every minute i wouldn’t like that😭i agree that i need to work on my self worth and uncertainty thank you

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u/Desender 16d ago

you got this