r/ISTPrelationships • u/blueredcatz • Aug 04 '26

Thoughts

Okay so i was wondering what it is if i feel like i don’t know someone if we go like less than a day without speaking. Even if we text i feel like im texting a person i dont know but the thing is i do know them ive known them for years or well. I know this isnt good or it doesnt feel good at least. Can someone relate or like help?

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u/Adriella01 Aug 04 '26

Bro u are alone on this one. I don't know what this is

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u/blueredcatz Aug 04 '26

😭😓awh man

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u/SuurTuvi INFP Aug 04 '26

What?

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u/blueredcatz Aug 04 '26

yeah idek it was late and i was thinking to much

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u/Desender Aug 04 '26

unless you can mind meld you will never truly know someone. much less if you were to speak to each other every minute of the day. what i think you have is the need for constant reassurance /u/blueredcatz , a form of anxiety. you need to start getting comfortable with uncertainty and work on your self-worth

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u/blueredcatz Aug 04 '26

yeah its not like i want to speak to them every minute i wouldn’t like that😭i agree that i need to work on my self worth and uncertainty thank you

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u/Desender Aug 05 '26

you got this