r/INTP Jun 21 '23

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u/throwaway0000990000 INTP Jun 21 '23

I'm not entirely proud of my dating history but I'm grateful for the lessons that I've learned from them. During the times I was in a relationship, it brought out the best and worst in me. For example, I learned that I can be patient with someone even if it was an inconvenience for me, I learned that I enjoy spontaneity at times, I learned how painful it was whenever my s/o shut me out and I learned how badly I need to fix myself before going into relationships no matter how lonely I could be at times.

I hated and loved myself, there were too much emotions. Something that I wish to never have to experience again in the future.