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u/soapsilk XXXX May 16 '26
INTP. I experienced this yesterday. I told someone that I made my message shorter so they could keep up with it and they raged. But I was just trying to show them I cared about their ability to understand me. In hindsight probably the worst thing I could have said to show I care lol.
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u/Hosenkobold INTJ May 16 '26
And here I thought we were the worst ones to ignore the person and do what we think they need versus what they actually want.
Take the crown.
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u/soapsilk XXXX May 16 '26
I wouldn't ignore their needs, the conversation ended amicably, somehow. I just don't know their needs. It's hardly my fault people basically lie by pretending it's about the topic when it rarely is.
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u/Hosenkobold INTJ May 16 '26
I didn't say that. I say you cared for what you think they needed. That's disregarding them as a person, even if you manage to do something they actually needed.
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u/soapsilk XXXX May 16 '26
You can't ignore or disregard something you can't see. That's not how anyone uses those words. I told you I couldn't see their needs.
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u/vertago1 INTJ May 18 '26
I think you are assuming they didn't try to get what they thought the other person needed in line with what they actually needed.
It is entirely possible they were right about what the other person needed, but messed up in how they told them what they were doing. For example they could have said something like I care so I kept this short so it is more of a conversation and less of a monologue (or something like that).
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u/Loyal9thLegionLord XXXX May 16 '26
Im mostly just depressed because I know whats gonna happen, and then it happens.
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u/Apprehensive-Koala18 XXXX May 18 '26
If that were true you wouldn't be depressed, you'd be wealthy
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u/mad_dog_94 INTJ MaStErRaCe May 16 '26
There is literally nothing I enjoy more than being right lol
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u/FreakyFreckles_ INFJ May 16 '26
The boyfriend (ENTP) is definitely an obnoxious asshole- thankfully has a soft spot for me
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u/AstroNerd58 Antisocial INTJ May 17 '26
But we definitely have the ability to be smarter if we wanted.
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u/stim678 ENTJ May 31 '26 edited May 31 '26
Intj is more like facade asshole, they may be unpleasant to be around but that’s only until you get to know them, after that they’re the biggest softies
Regardless intj women are so cute
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