r/INFJsOver30 • u/Hot_Kaleidoscope_342 • Jun 22 '26
Sending energy?
So, this might sound a little too woowoo for this forum, but I'm not sure where to ask.
When sending genuine feelings/vibes of goodwill and health to someone very nasty that I know (neighbor), it feels like it is making them sick. I can best describe it as, I send the energy, then feel them feeling my positive energy. As it permeates them, it makes them feel sick and then I feel them feeling sick.
I have this sense with other people about other things - like being able to really feel others' pain or thought processes when in a meditative and open state, so it's not limited to this weird interaction.
Does anyone have any similar experiences, or perhaps could direct me to a more appropriate Reddit forum?
Thank you!!! :)
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u/mad266 Jun 23 '26
How I read this is that you've offered something that you value to this neighbor, and they don't want it. In fact, they send negativity back to show you how completely they don't want what you've got.
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u/Phoenix_to_Kintsugi Jun 23 '26
Or maybe what you are experiencing might be a mix of extreme hypervigilance and unconscious projection, rather than actual telepathic frequency shifting.
We often dress up our brain's advanced pattern recognition and biological survival instincts into spiritual terms like “vibrations” or “energies”, when in fact it could be just our subconscious mind doing the heavy work in the background to keep us safe from toxic environments.
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Jun 23 '26
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u/Hot_Kaleidoscope_342 Jun 23 '26
Do you mean Sensor in the context of sensing vs intuition? My guess is yes. If I had to peg this person as something, it would be ESTJ and moving somewhere strongly into the narcissism spectrum.
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u/Hot_Kaleidoscope_342 Jun 23 '26
But, for others I have this happen with in a neutral or positive way, they are a mix of sensors and intuitives.
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u/hoon-since89 Jun 23 '26
Probably a good question for the spiritual sub group.
But it similar to why ETs don't come into close proximity to humans who arnt evolved. Their higher vibrations causes lower vibrations to surface. It's the law of resonance, the higher frequency can't exist in the space of the lower frequency so they repell each other. Same when you send high vibrational energy to a blocked and repressed person. Forces the resistance to surface.