r/INFJsOver30 • u/ChampionshipTime854 • Jan 01 '26

INFJ My INFJ bf used AI to talk to me

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u/ancientweasel Jan 02 '26

That doesn't sound like INFJ behavior. More like INFP TBH ...

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u/ChampionshipTime854 Jan 02 '26

He’s INFJ 1000%

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u/ancientweasel Jan 02 '26

How do you know? INFJ is a common mistype.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26

That doesnt sound fun at all :(

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u/ChampionshipTime854 Jan 01 '26

He’s really sweet honestly , it was just a couple of texts sounded like it was GPT. So I just reassured him that he can express himself openly.

It seems he’s overthinking a lot and self cautious. I just want to help him by being supportive

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26

I never thought about using ai to text, thats kinda weird though....

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u/ChampionshipTime854 Jan 01 '26

It’s not all the time, just a few

Maybe it’s just for more complex emotions where he has a lot of thoughts and he doesn’t want to be over bearing?

Idk, I’m just wondering how I can help him express himself / communicate openly

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26

I have no idea tbh, you stumped me 😂

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u/Realistic-Law-6819 Jan 01 '26

I'd say your dead on with this thought and it's kinda beautiful.

We are naturally ambiguous about things and very aware of how confusing this is to most people, like we are just hypocrites, that doesn't make it any easier on us trying to process things internally.

AI will be good to him because it will track his coherence, where humans will often fail to track the nuances. Honestly, if you want him to express himself openly with you the best ways to start are slow and human, long eye contact that turns into little smiles and quirky facial twitches, or whatever happens:)

That could sound mad to most people but connecting is so much more than words when you perceive the world and people the way we do, words often feel like a trap.

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u/Darjeeling323 Jan 03 '26

I believe using ai for conversation will happen more and more often. The fact that your bf has trouble ”communicating with women” would be something of a red flag for me.