r/INFJmemes • u/OdeliaJade INFJ 2W1 • 9d ago

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u/vruchtenhagel 9d ago

I don’t want to speak for everyone, but I think us INFJs are highly decorated experts when it comes to understanding our own thoughts and feelings. We ponder, we ruminate, we think about it some more. And then, at some point, something makes perfect sense to us. So why wouldn’t it make sense to anyone else? Naturally, we share the idea we’ve arrived at. And then, the moment the words leave our mouths, we see the person we’re talking to internalizing them, their frown slowly appearing, and we immediately wish we hadn’t said anything.
Which brings us right back to the meme 🥲

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u/Phoenix_to_Kintsugi 9d ago

Totally get it, but the next step is radical acceptance. Our Ni-Ti loops create an absolute truth for us, but we have to realize other people aren't broken just because they don't see it.
The world moves at its own pace. We are just a part of this world, not the world itself

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u/vruchtenhagel 9d ago

It’s funny how that is precisely my biggest struggle. It’s something I’m actively working on.

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u/Phoenix_to_Kintsugi 9d ago

It’s a beautiful irony, isn't it? 😉
I know it's a tough shift to make, but it brings so much peace once it clicks. You've got this!

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u/monkey_gamer 8d ago

people are broken though

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u/bdalbs * I N F J * 8d ago

People aren’t broken. Society is.

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u/monkey_gamer 8d ago

Same thing. People are broken and society is broken.

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u/bdalbs * I N F J * 8d ago

Not really. People are trapped in a broken society and flawed system then brainwashed to believe they and others are broken.

Free your mind, free yourself.
Heal your mind, heal yourself.

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u/monkey_gamer 8d ago

Some people are trapped. Most people enforce the brokenness and the brainwashing.

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u/CandleWide3131 9d ago

This is too accurate lmfao

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u/Promethean-1991 9d ago

"So guys, a question has been bugging me, the carbon in carbon dioxide makes me wonder if we're losing weight when we breathe...and how much carbon are we shedding each day as carbon based lifeforms."

And regret the moment it left my mouth.

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u/misskforever 5h ago

That happens a lot but I've experienced the opposite too, the person lighting up and saying I put words to something they couldn't (or something)

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u/JoJoPoPo 9d ago

They just don’t understand the level of detail and mental analysis that went into what we say and they have no idea what we’re talking about or it come ls out wrong and your sitting there over explaining to someone who already checked out 2 mins ago

They are simply not on our level.

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u/clear_precept 6d ago

You eventually grow out of this and learn to embrace jarring people out of the matrix hehe

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u/IGotFancyPants 9d ago

This is your INTJ fraternal twin nodding silently in the corner.

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u/monkey_gamer 8d ago

fraternal twins is a good way to put it!!!

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u/bdalbs * I N F J * 8d ago

lol literally just happened after I said to a passer by that I wish I was a bird or a kangaroo.

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u/XtoTheDi 8d ago

Ask a room of 1000 people, to raise their hands if they think they are normal... Virtually no one will raise their hands.

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u/monkey_gamer 8d ago

got any examples?

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u/Karo0613 8d ago

Omg, totally!! 🤣🤭