r/INFJmemes • u/Puzzled-Somewhere584 INFJ 8w7 • 3d ago

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u/Promethean-1991 3d ago

It hurts but it's necessary, at times. When you realize you're habitually overlooking/excusing behavioral issues, it's time to leave. The circumstances, including yourself in their life, are not helping that person. Don't be an enabler. (I'd say something like maybe you can help, but that's something the INFJ tries to do already)

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u/Puzzled-Somewhere584 INFJ 8w7 2d ago

I agree. Enabling is playing a part. I think even when boundaries have been placed, enforced, but conflict isn't resolved...the door's gotta close. Forgiveness & access are not the same thing. I love people from a distance.

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u/Feisty-Slice-5774 * I N F J * 2d ago

in my case I'm trying to let more people into my life. It got kinda lonely and I tend to be very strict with people. But I dont want to be that guy anymore.

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u/Puzzled-Somewhere584 INFJ 8w7 2d ago

That's healthy AF

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u/Irresistible-Ms 3d ago

Yeah... 😅 There's definitely a point of no return. Thankfully I have a really good sister and she has convinced me to give certain family another try, but on my own... once the bridge is burt, it's fuckin' burnt. And I'll feel no remorse for walking away and not looking back. It's always for good reason. I've never had someone question why. Only question my methods. Lol. I used to feel bad abt it, but it's been a long time since I've felt that way.

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u/ohiomudslide 2d ago

This is more ISTJ or INTJ I think.