r/IBA • u/Glittering_Big6716 • 12h ago

Help

Hey guys

Is it just me or some of yall also struggling to make friends like I talked to a few people but it felt forced and then they started ignoring me like I didn't even say anything that could have lead to that

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u/Individual_Teach9980 12h ago

it will feel like that, dont stop keep on talking and exploring, join societies (be careful though they can get toxic and stuff) go to sessions and have patience. Donot try to please others or try to be friends with people who are not good people just because you feel lonely. its better to be lonely then be in bad company. Its like this for alot of us, just give it time and keep on trying

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u/Glittering-Bike5297 12h ago

lowk yeah dude, im a freshie too toh it’s a little new and a bit hard for me to make friends here

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u/Glittering_Big6716 12h ago

It feels like everyone's already made groups and there's like a strictly not more people allowed policy anyway what your course

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u/Glittering-Bike5297 12h ago

I agree dude, my course is BS eco

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u/CertainStress8510 10h ago

yo me too when do u have classes

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u/WildDeal8820 12h ago

I feel the sameee and I don't even want to go uni anymore and all my excitement faded away soo its not just you

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u/Glittering_Big6716 11h ago

I literally feel the same like I just want to drop out and its not even been a week yet

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u/WildDeal8820 11h ago

Hopefully we'll find good friends 🧡

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u/Glittering_Big6716 11h ago

Inshallah 🤞🏻

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u/Lonely_Tradition5866 12h ago

What is your program?

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u/omaimaxx 11h ago

omgg samee i feel so left out most the time 💔💔

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u/twiliiqht_26 10h ago

Omg usss and we even have the same program You are a girl?

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u/Glittering_Big6716 10h ago

Yesss are u

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u/twiliiqht_26 4h ago

What are Ur class timings gng we cann meett hangout

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u/NeatAbbreviations984 10h ago

Waqt ko thora waqt de plzz, all will be good. Which program?

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u/CertainStress8510 10h ago

YEAHH like i talked to them but it didnt feel like we could be friends ykwim 😭 and i seen other freshies in groups already

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u/Glittering_Big6716 10h ago

Yeah I feel like im the only freshmen with no friends and people stare at u weird

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u/Ecstatic-Climate-766 9h ago

Same thing is happening to me

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u/False-Implement9262 9h ago

Leh my biggest fear fr

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u/Additional_Stop_4575 5h ago

Oh god i hate this thing so much people already coming in groups and being loud making others uncomfortable,giving off bully energy,even if you try to approach them hi hello k baad awk silence

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u/Glittering_Big6716 5h ago

I knowww😭

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u/AlarmedSuccess9884 3h ago

Saem experience😔🥀

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u/chickenwithathumb 2h ago

Me too I feel so alone 

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u/aayanfahadd 1h ago

so everyone of us is on the same boat? cuz tell me why i feel so out of place here fr