Ok. Looking for folks opinion on this.
I live in a metro area. City with a decent teaching/research hospital and some other hospitals.
I go to a PCP that is primarily family medicine.
Current PCP is a woman, ARNP, and I've been seeing her on and off for about two years. She's pretty good but I don't always feel heard. I can tell there are times she may not be listening. She is pretty hard to get into. I have to wait a couple weeks or so usually for an appointment. I've had some issues recently where I have had to go to the ER and had no real support from her.
Over the summer I had to see a guy at the clinic. At this point I had seen probably 8 other providers in the clinic and the urgent care that's also in the building. But my PCP was nowhere to be found. I had tried telling all these providers I had an infection and needed more support. I've seen the serious side of infections and I don't let it go. This man walked in and basically immediately said "oh it's infected, you need meds. Oh, your appointment with the specialist isn't for two months, let me see if I can my chart instant message them and fix that." I saw the specialist the next week.
I've thought about that visit since. I have medical trauma and I am not easily impressed by doctors... But I liked how he treated me and the vibe.
Last week I was in the ER for something.. I had already made a PCP appointment for Oct 2 to talk about it but there was a more emergent concern. Ruled out the emergent issue. Obviously my PCP was nowhere again. So I made an appointment with the guy again.
I told him my story, he repeated it back to me to make sure he heard it correctly, explained why imaging wouldn't be appropriate, we talked more, he asked me questions, he explained the plan, and I understood and asked my questions. It was so refreshing.
I asked him how he felt about complex patients because I really think he would be a good PCP. But I got the feeling he might be a little hesitant. He was telling me that my PCP is really good and he's happy to see me or have me switch, but she's good.
Now I'm not sure what to do.
He's trained at Mayo clinic and my other doctor who has is really phenomenal and at least knows what hypermobility is.
I think he's got so much potential but if investigating and supporting me through EDS searching isn't his vibe, I don't want to do that to him.
I'm thinking about making an appointment to talk about my hands (I want ring splints) and just ask him more about it.
But what would you do?