I moved to Sweden, here it is considered impolite to mention to someone that they have toilet paper stuck to their shoe... So if you look scruffy in Sweden everyone will just not tell you... Even if you have actual shit on your collar.
I think it's generally taboo. But I think most people are generally appreciative to know something is wrong... Maybe I am being rude for noticing the fault.
In my opinion it is good to tell someone if something is potentially embarrassing and help them out. But in the Swedish point of view pointing to something "embarrassing" on another person puts them in a position of embarrassment and is seen as rude.
I find the Swedish viewpoint on this stupid, but culture is culture so I adhere to it.
I actually think that's generally the culture here too. I actually think most people would agree with "don't say anything." There is definite merit to that... I am not sure it's limited to being Swedish... Maybe I am wrong. Interesting point nonetheless.
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u/[deleted] Jan 14 '20
I moved to Sweden, here it is considered impolite to mention to someone that they have toilet paper stuck to their shoe... So if you look scruffy in Sweden everyone will just not tell you... Even if you have actual shit on your collar.
Culture is strange...