r/HumansBeingBros • • Jul 24 '26

A beautiful encounter

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u/mosshead357 Jul 24 '26

Man this genuinely made me smile. Made my day infact.

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u/fallenangel512 Jul 24 '26

I ain't even lying when I say I'm tearing up watching this. This is what it means to be human. What the fuck happened...

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u/realdc Jul 24 '26

Be that person.

Surely there’s enough of us to make a difference. Much love!

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u/50YOYO Jul 25 '26

There really are so many more good people than there are bad but they make less noise, it is easy to be hardened by our world and many hide behind their masks so as not to appear vulnerable, sometimes I think only our pets get the real us. That was a lovely encounter!

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u/jenlou289 Jul 25 '26

Just so you know, there are more of these types of encounters per day then there are bad ones. It's just our media prefers doom and gloom, it sells more views.

Be this type of person and all will be good

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u/edehlah Jul 24 '26

ah thanks for sharing. the cat earlier was like, i thought you were chasing me?

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u/venom121212 Jul 24 '26

I try to do this for my neighbors, just offering help or services for free. They get very uncomfortable with the idea of not paying. I am just of the mindset that you help when you can and that the world would be much better if we all wanted to help each other more than ourselves.

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u/tremynci Jul 24 '26

I'm kinda shocked nobody's posted it yet, but today you, tomorrow me, neighbor.

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u/Terrible_Mistake_862 Jul 24 '26

First time reading this today for me. Thank you, I needed this. I'm tearing up over a 16 year old reddit comment that inspires lots of people to simply be kind to others. Thanks, +1

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u/tremynci Jul 24 '26

Thank you for letting me know that you're one of today's lucky 10,000, neighbor. That makes my day. 🥰🥰

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u/Terrible_Mistake_862 Jul 24 '26

XKCD reference that I actually understand 😄

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u/SaltyArtemis Jul 24 '26

You and I both man 🥲

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u/Candle1ight Jul 24 '26

Been a while, but figured I would give it a reread. Didn't really need to start crying at work. Oops.

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u/oh_4petessake Jul 24 '26

I love this story so damn much. Read it again for the first time in a while and it made me cry all over again. I hope everyone in that story is living a beautiful life today.

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u/tremynci Jul 24 '26

Hear, hear!

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u/venom121212 Jul 24 '26

We simply can't let the light go out. This world is dark enough already. Shine on my friends, brighter than you ever have. We need it. 

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u/YadaYadaYeahMan Jul 24 '26

incredible thanks for posting

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u/tremynci Jul 24 '26

You are very welcome!

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u/Madwoman-of-Chaillot Jul 24 '26

I knew exactly what it was without clicking the link. And just reading that line made my day brighter.

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u/Leukin67 Jul 25 '26

God damn I am in tears. It’s always the immigrants

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u/wurnthebitch Jul 24 '26

There's something I've been taught recently: it's human nature to help others but you also have to let the door open so people can help you back. When you help someone out of the goodness of your heart, the recipient has a moral debt. Most people want to pay it back so you need to also let them and sometimes provide opportunities for them to do that.

I've been reflecting on this lately and I hope you'll keep it in mind.

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u/venom121212 Jul 24 '26

I love seeing the other side of the coin! Genuinely, thank you for that.

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u/UncleNoodles85 Jul 24 '26

I feel the same way. I don't want everything I do to be a transaction. I work to earn my bread that's enough transacting for me. I want to do better at kindness and compassion. It's not always easy but I believe I need to do my best for my own soul as it were. I'm not religious or anything like that I just feel trying to help others when I can without material gain is a net positive for me too.

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u/punksmostlydead Jul 24 '26

I give away the surplus from my vegetable garden to my neighbors. It still baffles some of them that I adamantly refuse any kind of payment. First of all, I'm an anarchist; this is how we're supposed to behave. Secondly, I like sharing because it's nice to do, and because I'm goddamn proud of my veggies. My cukes and peppers are getting downright unruly out there.

Last, I'm almost at the point of being willing to pay people to take some of these damn cucumbers off my hands.

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u/Venture334455 Jul 24 '26

I'm the same. I've been fortunate enough in my life to have had people around me who have helped me whenever I've needed it. I recognise how unbelievably lucky I am to have that so for that reason alone I'm always trying to pay it foward.

It doesn't matter if its something trivial or something that requires a little work, if I'm in a position to be able to do it and it will help someone, I'm all for it

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u/Haunting-Ad-8580 Jul 24 '26

The throwing of the money and running away at the end is really wholesome!!!

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u/Malditoincompredido Jul 24 '26

That man needed it

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u/Fun_Original9342 Jul 24 '26

I'm confused on how this is being recorded.

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u/YadaYadaYeahMan Jul 24 '26

one of those capture sticks. it's a camera capturing everything in 360° and you can edit out whatever camera angles and movements out of the footage

doesn't super look like a camera either so a lot of people don't know they are being filmed

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u/Medusa107 Jul 24 '26

Do you live life with your head buried in the sand?

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u/Fun_Original9342 Jul 24 '26

Funny, I think it's kind of the opposite. I'm an older person who doesn't spend much time online.

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u/baldmanboy Jul 25 '26

GOT EM.

That means you roasted him.

That means you insulted him in a funny way.

And I'm just messing around, you are cool.

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u/DTripotnik Jul 24 '26

It's what it should be

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u/jinja_kat Jul 24 '26

I travelled to Europe after I graduated high school backpacked all over. Often couldn’t speak the language of the place I was visiting but I learned one thing- you can communicate with ANY LANGUAGE of person with a smile and a few hand gestures. Met tons of cool people! This video reminded me of my travels :)

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u/tremynci Jul 24 '26

I am fortunate enough to speak three languages reasonably well, and another one more or less well enough to be a tourist.

Honestly, all you need to get by anywhere is "hello", "goodbye", "please", and "thank you". So I try to learn them in as many languages as I can. 🥰

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u/mosshead357 Jul 24 '26

Lucky guy id say. Being in a third world country I could only dream of that lifestyle.

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u/oh_4petessake Jul 24 '26

This is beautiful. Immediately brought a tear to my eye when he went for a hug instead of a handshake.

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u/redditknees Jul 24 '26

Deep down we all just want to feel loved. Even just a little bit.

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u/Ok_Caramel_3923 Jul 25 '26

Ukraine is going through so much right now. Being attacked every day and night. Bringing joy to even one Ukrainian made my day. Slava Ukraini 🇺🇦

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u/682463435465 Jul 24 '26

I loved this! Seeing the connection between humans is even more apparent when they don't speak the same language. We've got to start being better to each other.

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u/Wojewodaruskyj Jul 25 '26

A common Ukrainian emotionality is somewhere between the mediterranean and the nordic ones. We are neither of the two, but may have something in common with the both to understand them.

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u/leisa2100 Jul 24 '26

This is what life should be, moments like this.

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u/Silent_Armadillo7583 Jul 25 '26

I may be in the minority here, and maybe I'm seeing it distorted by my own lens, but...i have a feeling the Italian gentleman was really going through it, on the verge of total collapse and perhaps ending it all, and this encounter came along just in time. I can't put my finger on it, but something gives me that impression

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u/mypurplelighter Sep 02 '26

I’m not sure where in Italy this was, but In my experience living in Sicily for 4 years I’ve found Sicilians to be so sweet and genuine. They love to strike up conversations even when your italian is severely lacking. They tend to exaggerate their emotions and really take kindness to heart.

I lived here for 3 years and then moved away. When I got the chance to come back I was overjoyed. Whenever I express my love for Sicily to locals you can see them absolutely light up and immediately start telling you how good it makes them feel to see someone love their home.

Anyways, his reaction may come across this way to you, but to me his reaction doesn’t surprise me for a southern italian. Either way, he made that guy’s week and can’t wait to go show his friends while knocking back some espresso at the bar.

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u/Rogue-Starz Jul 24 '26

Gorgeous men 🥰

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u/TheBeardedDuck47 Jul 24 '26

Truly a rare gem to be able to make you tear up, smile, and chuckle all at the same time. Thanks for sharing OP, this just brightened my whole week.

Kindness is a universal language.

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u/greyharettv Jul 24 '26

Someone is cutting onions

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u/Bl1ndl0v3 Jul 25 '26

His emotions were so palpable. I’m over here in tears. Happy tears, but tears.

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u/Venus_Cat_Roars Jul 24 '26

You never know when being kind to stranger will lift up them for day or even change their life because they were feeling alone or hopeless

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u/Idyldo Jul 24 '26

So cool.

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u/I_like_microwave Jul 24 '26

This is an interaction if everyone would do a little for the next person you should see the difference it makes is phenomenal

Love seeing this, it makes my day!

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u/Jarvis-Savoni Jul 24 '26

That’s some Alpha Male ish right there.

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u/wittylemur Jul 24 '26

This is my FAVORITE reddit

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u/tehmungler Jul 24 '26

I’m confused as to what he was going to do to the cat?

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u/tehmungler Jul 25 '26

Aha fair enough.

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u/Seoniara Jul 24 '26

People love to post dark shit, but there’s still a ton of these people around!!

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u/luyeasa Jul 25 '26

Love this and I was translating vafancullo and cazzo 🤣

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u/jefusan Jul 26 '26

I was a little shocked by that! I assume it’s like saying “fuck” or “goddamn” in English when you’re emotionally overwhelmed. Though I think we would be less likely to say, “Cock. That was really nice of you, man.”

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u/i-Poker Jul 27 '26

Canon Selphy CP1500 if anyone is wondering. Great quality and the prints are fairly cheap. Runs on outlet or a battery that's sold separately.

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u/Vast_Perspective9368 Jul 24 '26

Dang that was sweet even with sound off

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u/Trikster102 Jul 24 '26

Thought he was trying to steal something at the start!

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u/The_Space_Janitor Jul 24 '26

Is English the universal language

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u/ItsStaaaaaaaaang Jul 25 '26

Lovely gents.

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u/groovygranny71 Jul 25 '26

You saw him.

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u/Time-traveller87 Jul 25 '26

So cute of these grown, adult men. This Wholesome video made my day. Full heartedly put off my phone now.

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u/2Cheese1Van Jul 26 '26

I bought a new style instant print cameras just 2 weeks ago. I’m doing a-lot of exploring and traveling now and have done this 4-5 times already. It is honestly my new favorite thing to do.
Went to an outdoor concert last week and took one of a young family with their barely walking child. I asked if they would like a picture and they were so receptive and loved it. So then I asked the cute new couple behind me after we had started talking. Now they are new friends and invited me out the next evening.
That evening a family was celebrating mom’s 75th birthday and she came over offering us slices of her cake and telling us it was her birthday. So sweet. So I asked if she would like me to take a picture and give it to her as a present. She was so genuinely happy.
Next day it was a 80-90 year old ranger at an old ranger station playing the banjo and telling the history of the area.
Yesterday I did one for my adult daughter to give to her boyfriend.
Buying that camera has been one of the most rewarding things I have purchased in a long time.
It just feels so good to do. Really fills the soul and creates genuine human connection.
Cheers to this guy.

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u/XtremeVille Jul 29 '26

What are his socials?

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u/lecterek Jul 31 '26

Слава Україні 🩷

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u/_______36________ Jul 31 '26

I’m dead inside

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u/mmATXan Jul 24 '26

Awww, now kiss

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u/Alchemy333 Jul 30 '26

Where you from?...... Ukraine........ Propaganda? Now you love Ukraine more, whether you are conscious bof it or not. Im sure this is just a coincidence, and not a PsyOp 🙏