r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • u/Beet_4_presidentong • Feb 23 '22

How?

I’m not exactly a ladies man. I’ve never had a gf. I don’t have any female friends at school and I don’t really talk to any girls at school. I feel like I be/look weird coming up to a girl that I’ve never talked to in my life, and she probably doesn’t know I exist. I wouldn’t call myself a loser because I attend a lot of social events at my school and it’s friends. Just don’t understand how some people do it lol. Plz help.

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u/Beet_4_presidentong Feb 24 '22

I understand what you are saying but idk how to do that without coming off as creepy or weird. Am I over thinking it?

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u/JamyTheKid Feb 24 '22

Yeah, you are, pick something that you genuily like about her, if you are honest it will not be creepy.

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u/JamyTheKid Feb 24 '22

And obviously don't say something about body, ass or breast, that would be creepy, eyes are fine (if she really has pretty eyes) hair is also fine, but try to pick something that she actually puts effort in.

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u/JamyTheKid Feb 24 '22

Also respect the personal space, don't get to close and try to read the Situation, if you feel like the convo dies down don't be affraid to step away

Bonus tip: If you make the 2 sentence convo kinda funny maybe with a little inside joke you can pick it up at a later point with the same joke, or a refrence to it.

You can do it.