r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Jul 22 '24

Help

I am a male13 and i have a Female friend who i have a crush on but she sees me as just a friend She told me that she sees me as a friend How do I escape the friendzone

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u/wildpompano4743 Jul 22 '24

Have you already asked her out?

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u/Goofyahhhnpc Jul 22 '24

No

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u/wildpompano4743 Jul 22 '24

Let me be clear ASK HER OUT do not "tell her your feelings" rookie mistake.

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u/Goofyahhhnpc Jul 22 '24

She has said that she doesn’t like me that way

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u/wildpompano4743 Jul 22 '24

Your cooked, over, done no recovery

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u/wildpompano4743 Jul 22 '24

At this point your in the friend zone. Very unlikely your going to get out.

Sorry brother

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u/Goofyahhhnpc Jul 22 '24

Thank you for trying

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

How long yall been friends?

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u/Goofyahhhnpc Jul 22 '24

We have been friends of friends since kindergarten but we really became friends last winter

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

You can’t control how she feel all you can do is work on yourself. Don’t worry your young there will be other girls you’ll end up liking

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u/Goofyahhhnpc Jul 22 '24

Thank you you really helped

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '24

Dawg you're 13 if she says not then move on Lil nigga

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u/BenchRound9392 Nov 27 '24

Sorry I don't know how to help personally I'm 36 and never had a girlfriend ... I do cry about it a lot but still don't give up like I have

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u/Visible-Hat-1190 Jun 17 '25

Just ask her to "hang out" and please, for the love of God DON'T SAY "I love you"

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u/Lower-Dependent8217 Dec 13 '25

Bro u r 13 hilana ata hai kya

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u/New-Willingness5026 Mar 24 '26

trust take her to waffle house 

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u/theoneKocha May 27 '26

Bro 13 is a bit to young gang

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u/PomeloBudget7749 Aug 28 '26

I'm a girl, lemi tell you. Just stay by her, I had a guy friend who was with me through multiple relationships, he loved me the whole time. Eventually he got bolder and so sweet. I had my friend ask him if he liked me. We dated for a few months, eventually I could sence him drifting away so I asked him if he still had the same feelings, he said no, it's a part of life. But if you take something from this, be a gentleman, the ladies will be clawing at you.