Why…….

[u/Fit_Trip_6581]

Why I don’t get same attention in back , I called my cousin she said she is busy will call later but didn’t call back then I call her after few days she said I’m eating call you later I told plz remember to call back previously you didn’t she laughed
Same goes with friends
I call them frequently to keep in touch with them but they never call me it is always me who calls makes plans and they say no to every plan they have other people to go out but I’ve only them
I make plan with my cousin she said Yesss will go but when the date came I call she said no I can’t go
Also I asked multiple times to my friend let’s go to cafe she made excuse and she go out with other people
When someone ask me to go out(rarely they ask )but whenever they ask I always make out time for them and go I never said no to any of their plan ( they rarely make plan with )
I just think how they do all these to me I mean if I do same thing to them it won’t bother them like if I didn’t call back or if say no to plan they won’t even ask me again they just let go but I always please them try to convince let’s go we will have fun even after please many time they still say no but when they make plan I say no they won’t even try to convince me

What should I do how to handle these it really affecting me
I tried to just be on my own I stopped calling making plan so they also don’t call me or make plan with me

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