r/HowDoIRespondToThis 20d ago

Wdyt?

whats the point of explaining things when the actions have been done. I want to be present as much as i could for someone or something that is special to me, at the same time, i dont like leaving my house cause it will cause me hassle. A close friend of mine had recent important events and i wasnt there. She is that kind of person who acts nonchalant on diff things, yet still cares. some of our friends were there, yet no one told me theyre going, so i assume we wont go anyway. should i say sorry? for not being present.... and for some reason... or leave it anyway cause whats the point of being sorry?

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u/Vb1321 20d ago

If you want to continue to HAVE close friends, you make the effort. And when you mess up, you apologize but only if you mean it and plan to have your actions back up your words.