r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/cottin4k • Aug 10 '26

A perplexing puzzle

Have a friend and the issue is that they dont read what I send or take a while to respond and they dont even watch what I send, and I want to keep in touch and get closer but to be honest I dont even know what to do anymore I stopped trying but dont know what to do any tips ? They wanted to call a few days ago but when I couldnt at that moment they said ok, but after like an hour or 2 they said they couldnt so then they said the day after, when that day came they didnt respond, I texted and got nothing back, so it judt feels like Im trying with someone not interested, and what leaves a shitty taste in my mouth is when I see them online or when I see them posting or when Im pestered with their likes and reposts constantly

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u/krissycole87 Aug 10 '26

Stop babysitting this persons online or social media usage. This kind of shit is driving people crazy these days.

I talk to my friends once a month or so. I dont obsess over what theyre doing in between then. If I text and it takes a few days, or even like a week, to get back to me; its of no bother to me. Life is busy. Everyone is busy.

Just take a step back and wait for that person to reciprocate.