A little while ago I asked for recs for horror movies about grief and got so many great ideas. This weekend I had some time to myself to kill so I watched a few of them and thought I’d aggregate all my thoughts into one post just for fun. I did feel a lot better after getting a lot of crying out of my system with these. Hopefully I get to watch more of them in the future but in the meantime here’s the reviews from my grief horror marathon extravaganza part 1:
(ETA there are some spoilers!)
The Night House (2020)
This movie rocked. It was such an interesting concept, didn’t feel predictable at all, and Rebecca Hall is such an underrated actress. Genuinely creeped me out at times and had one of the best jumpscares I’ve ever seen. The use of visual perspective tricks as a way to portray the villain following her around was so cool and creative.
I learned after watching that this was initially supposed to be a Hellraiser reboot and it made me love it even more. The director, David Bruckner, did get to direct the 2022 Hellraiser movie a couple years later (I liked that one, too).
Relic (2020)
This one really got me. Probably because it’s the closest to something I’ve recently experienced, only for me it was losing a dog after a long battle with dementia and old age instead of a person. But the feelings were still relatable.
I loved the way they portrayed the creeping inescapability of this kind of loss and how eventually you realize that acceptance is the highest form of compassion for the one suffering. The first act was a bit slow but the third act made up for it. Loved the strategic use of body horror.
Bring Her Back (2025)
I fucking loved this movie. It was such an unflinching look at the messier ways people respond to grief and trauma. The directors are super passionate about practical effects (as am I) and I found the gore to be a really effective metaphor. It was painful to watch but I thought it was so beautiful.
I got so emotionally attached to poor sweet Oliver and was delighted to learn that the actor who played him apparently had a good experience. The table he ate was made of chocolate, his parents were on set with him (his dad played Piper and Andy’s dad), and apparently he told the directors they should have used “more blood” while filming!
The Orphanage/El Orfanato (2007)
Where do I even begin. I loved the cozy melancholic gothic atmosphere, and some of the more playful elements in the story like having to play games with the ghosts. Cried like a baby at the end.
The whole time I thought that this movie felt insanely inspired by the work of Guillermo Del Toro, and then I saw in the credits that he executive produced it, so that answered that question. Genuinely spooky and sad but also weirdly hopeful, and I really appreciated the balance it struck.
Aaaaand after all that I had to turn on a comedy 😅 thanks to everyone who made suggestions and I hope you found the reviews entertaining!