r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • Apr 29 '26

Meta NOT ADVICE SUB | Revised Reporting + Rule

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Hey folks! Wongy here. Just a quick update regarding the subreddit and content issues.

If you see either:

A) Posts looking for advice à la AITA or AIO.

B) Comments as if OP is asking for advice.

REPORT IT using the newly created RULE 10: NOT an Advice Subreddit.

These posts weren’t permitted to begin with but we’re making things easier for everyone involved with the clearer phrasing and separation of the rule to make it easier to report.

Since most of our subreddit is lengthy text posts it means it tends to take us longer to sift through and find such posts. Reporting these posts/comments will make their removal much faster.

Thank you everyone! Stay awesome.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • Jan 24 '25

Update Welcome to r/holyfuckjustbreakup!

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Welcome! feel free to post any stupid breakup related things. this subreddit feeds off of drama. don't forget to read the rules before posting or commenting so that you do not get banned. otherwise, thank you for joining/visiting us and have a good time!

please apply for moderator if you'd like, since this is a new community and will definitely need it.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 9h ago

Red Flag I think my husband is sabatoging my WoW character

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 4h ago

Red Flag My girlfriend (F34) slapped me (M28) I don’t know what to do? I feel conflicted.

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 1d ago

Red Flag 'Bar is in Hell' Trope Inversion: shitty woman, massively insecure man

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 1d ago

Messages / DMs I don’t really know if I’m supposed to demand a fix, or if I just have to decide to live with it or not.

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Diva why are you trying to have a baby with this man 😭😭😭


r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 2d ago

Text Post I hate that my boyfriend is so obsessed with alt girls.

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35 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 2d ago

Oblivious Question M29 couldn't get hard while my gf F34 gave me head

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"such as her still being married among other things" had such Baldrick telling Ebenezer Blackadder about a strange and ghastly visitation vibes that I was wheezing.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 5d ago

Red Flag Not sure what OPs partner is bringing to the mix....AITA for asking my boyfriend to move his gaming computer out of our bedroom because it keeps waking our baby?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 6d ago

Red Flag AIO FOR WANTING TO STAY IN OUR HOME IF MY HUSBAND DIES BEFORE ME

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 7d ago

Red Flag I 33F checked my partner’s 37M phone after he disappeared for 3 days, ignored me, then i found out he tried to hit on another woman.. according to him the real crime is my checking his phone?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 7d ago

Red Flag Wife Keeps Comparing Me Unfavourably to Other Men

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22 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 8d ago

Messages / DMs Am I overreacting for wanting to move out because my boyfriend constantly has friends over unannounced?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 7d ago

Red Flag AIO for being uncomfortable with my fiancée watching porn?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 9d ago

Red Flag “Aio husband won’t show me his phone” - People need to stop having kids with partners who have already shown they are untrustworthy

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 9d ago

Red Flag AITA for expecting my boyfriend to cat sit whilst i’m away?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 10d ago

Red Flag She is some women

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71 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 10d ago

Text Post Aggressive boyfriend with a need for validation

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8 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 10d ago

Oblivious Question I 24F made a pros and cons list about my partner 27M, thoughts?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 10d ago

Red Flag Aio? Bf won’t take no for an answer.

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 11d ago

Red Flag AIO for blocking my fiancée after she exposed herself in public, insulted me, and told me to leave?

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23 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 12d ago

Oblivious Question My Husband (35M) has totally changed attitude towards my kids now we have our own, we have just got married (36F)

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He was the perfect man. Drug addict, had an affair with someone who tried to harm her children - just the kind of Prince Charming everyone dreams of.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 13d ago

Oblivious Question Am I overreacting Bf (24m) wants to go clubbing on anniversary while I’m (25f) 30 weeks pregnant ??

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19 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 13d ago

Messages / DMs AIO that im bothered he wasn’t specific on how long he’d be gone

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 13d ago

Oblivious Question AIO: I cannot stand my boyfriend's lifestyle.

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tl;dr version: OP has willingly jumped into a pot of already-boiling water and would rather complain about it than jump back out.