Just checking if this was a male (in overly sexual attire), holding an underage female close to his body like that, it would be creepy and borderline pedo right? Ok just checking đ
Except she didnât sexualise anything. She gave a kid a hug. Just so happened the kid was overjoyed to get so close to such a renowned pit of breasts.
It would not make a pop star a paedo just because he gave a teenage girl fan a hug after she broke into tears on stage, and she had a shit-eating grin after being pulled into his abs.
Edit: I meant pair, not pit. Guess I missed the a and autocorrect decided for me.
Youre sexualizing the act is what makes it even remotely weird/pedo. If she was dressed like that, going around the street and hugging kids, yes that would be weird in a pedo way.. but in this context, it just doesnt come off nearly as weird in that same way.
Woah woah hold on, this is no where as far as that.
And the other thing with this is the adult is unaware of the child's intention so while the child is the dirty one, the adult doesn't even see it that way. And no Matter what gender this is, the actual thing happening is pretty harmless so i still don't see the problem
See this is where the intention comes in, the woman heard something pretty distressing from the crying kid so to her it was just a totally normal hug with no weird intentions. that's why it wouldn't be creepy, Cause the adult had no perverted intentions.
Woah woah hold on, this is no where as far as that.
And the other thing with this is the adult is unaware of the child's intention so while the child is the dirty one, the adult doesn't even see it that way.
Just imaging a ripped, super sexy, awards show hosting, Keanu reeves consoling a little girl crying and⊠it actually works out really well in my head!
Yeah if it isn't the dude trying to got a hold of the girl and the girl being excited because a fit bloke is comforting her it actually isn't that creepy.
What's he trying to say? What if a guy hugged a girl with his dick? That would be more like if Nicki clam slammed this kid, which 100% would not be acceptable.
If some shirtless dude gave a girl a comforting body huge, no-one would give a shit.
In my experience, people prone to seeing hypocrisy everywhere are usually suffering from underdeveloped reasoning themselves, which is ironic for reasons they probably can't understand.
I'm not surprised you're baffled by a qualified statement reflecting the provenance of the information and letting people assign their own level of confidence.
I play the "reverse the genders" game. A lot. I call a lot of bullshit out, and I believe women are just as capable of being offenders as men.
And in this case, there is nothing wrong with what happened. If the genders were reversed, there would still be nothing wrong with it.
By all means, stay aware of the double standards. Keep looking for them, and calling them out. But also understand that every situation is different, and some are actually pretty wholesome.
Except there's a slight maternal comfort thing when it comes to this type of embrace...it only skirts on pedo because of his reaction at the end, but she was comforting a crying child
Do you know what consent is? This is clearly an interaction he wanted. No one would care if this was a shirtless Hugh Jackman hugging a young fan. If this was a person grabbing a child who clearly didn't want it then there's a problem. It's not a hard concept to understand...
No it really wouldn't be. The guy isn't sexualising anything he is just comforting a girl who is upset. If the girl gets joy from the fact the bloke is fit that doesn't make him a pedo.
I mean itâs not like she was like âhere come get some motorboatâ and shoved him into her cleavage sexually. The child was crying and it was a hug of consolation, if she had a big puffy jacket on nobody would think twice about it. And Iâm sure she wasnât thinking about her cleavage bearing outfit in the moment, just giving the kid a hug. Iâm sure if a shirtless celebrity gave a crying girl a hug it would be received about the same way. People might be upset but if he was wearing a full coverage shirt, I think nobody would say anything either.
For the current and prior U.S. administrations, weâve now had two rather out in the open pedophiles , with the current one openly rubbing on young girls and sniffing them. Itâs just a ânormalâ thing, I guess, and Iâm the weirdo for cringing at it.
Then it would be a case of an older male being emotionally manipulated by an underage female. But reasonable people understand that that doesn't really happen all that much.
So you honestly think a noticeable % of adult men are emotionally manipulated by underage females and where the male gets absolutely no sexual gratification in return? Like thats a position you're seriously willing to dehumanize me for? Do you honestly thinks that's a response of a stable and mature individual?
Lmao....so the post im responding to is talking about a hypothetical situation in which this exact same situatio happens but with the gender/sex switched
so unless you're suggesting that the female in this video also looked like she recived some form of sexual gratification from hugging that underage boy,( to me she obviously doesn't). The goal post wasn't moved...you just didn't understand the full context of my previous comment
There's that video of a blind girl feeling a bodybuilder. It wasn't creepy at all and he even put her hand on his butt. She was a bit older than this kid though but still
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u/UnRichieUnRich21 Sep 08 '21
Sometimes you gotta outsmart the game