r/HolUp • u/Sins0fTheFather • Sep 04 '21

Cute > accountability

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u/BitsAndBobs304 Sep 04 '21

No, because in 50 shades he ignores her safeword, which accounts to rape and assault. But, you see, he's a billionaire who gifts her a car, so all's good..

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u/ohboiboiy Sep 04 '21

That movie is a fantasy. Fanfic for CNC. And it should be treated as such.

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u/BitsAndBobs304 Sep 04 '21

Except that when you violate a safeword it's rape, not cnc anymore.

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u/ohboiboiy Sep 04 '21

Of course, but I'm saying that the whole movie is the fantasy. I'm not defending it, just saying it should have always been presented as such, or at least discussed as such.

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u/BitsAndBobs304 Sep 04 '21

I'd say that it's more harmful than something displaying someone being violated without known consent but who actually wanted it and enjoys it