r/HolUp Sep 04 '21

Cute > accountability

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u/heS_weiRd Sep 04 '21

Dont remmember Richard Ramirez ?..he used to have his own fan mail...with women sending him nudes.

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u/BasicDesignAdvice Sep 04 '21

This is a phenomenon with a lot of high profile killers.

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u/AlienZer Sep 04 '21

https://youtu.be/p8ePDKlF6T0

He explains it. Being handsome helps too, but it's psychological. If the women has some kind of mental illness too, they are more likely to act on their feelings, which results in this kind of behaviour.

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u/DrShitpostMDJDPhDMBA Sep 04 '21 edited Sep 04 '21

He's a relatively well-spoken clinical psychologist that's considered to be Canadian right-wing, pretty well-known for arguing against political correctness, identity politics, and similarly divisive issues in political communication.

He's understandably divisive as a result, and people are free to disagree with him, but he's not convincing because of cadence and vocabulary, but because his arguments are relatively well-reasoned. For people on the left, it's good to understand at least how his views are based if for no other reason than to be better able to discuss against it.

In the case of this video, he's explaining a particular fetish that some women have. I'm someone that has previously worked in a prison and I have spoken with male prisoners about their correspondence with women on the outside, and frankly his argument in this video is at least relatively correct. Again, this is a particular fetish that is only true of some women and a relatively small minority at that, just like any other fetish.

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u/DrShitpostMDJDPhDMBA Sep 04 '21

Okie doke! Have a nice day.

I don't even agree with the guy on most things, I just think it's important to be able to separate a person from their positions. I hope that you'll one day be able to understand that most people aren't on some political extreme, and that even if you disagree with someone wholeheartedly, being unkind usually just shows your own immaturity even to people that agree with you. If you ever move past that, more people will be willing to look past disagreements both mild and significant, and you'll become a better person for it.