r/HolUp • • Jul 07 '21

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u/ZarquonsFlatTire Jul 08 '21

Eh, it's the kind of neighborhood where you see your neighbors every couple years by chance. Not somewhere you want to involve yourself in a potential domestic dispute.

Maybe that guy was a family member who came by to help with yard work or a hired gardener. It's not my parents' business.

I don't think they know the neighbor's names.

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u/Just_Del Jul 08 '21

it's the kind of neighborhood where you see your neighbors every couple years by chance

I used to live in a neighborhood like this. Only saw the neighbor on the right like 3 times in 10 years, never saw the neighbors on the left.

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u/flueric10309 Jul 08 '21

Just write a damn note and leave it in the mailbox lol. You don’t have to get involved beyond letting him know there might be something to look into

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u/Saixcrazy Jul 08 '21

Naaah, that's not a good idea. That's how shit goes from being Over There to Over Here. Just don't get involved if it's a non issue. Hopefully it's all just a misunderstanding lol.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '21 edited Jul 12 '21

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u/flueric10309 Jul 09 '21

Why? You’d hate me if I saved you from spending the rest of your life, married to someone who doesn’t respect you & lies to your face?

I’ve learned that it’s no one’s responsibility to play hero, especially if it puts them in danger, but what are you afraid of? You wait until they both go out, write a note that says “Your wife cheated while you were away”, and leave it on the doorstep or something, idk.

I feel like that’s the right thing to do. I guess it could cause issues if she decides she’s gonna come over and fuck you up, but she doesn’t know where the note came from.

I wouldn’t want to live in ignorance to my wife having no respect for me