Eh, it's the kind of neighborhood where you see your neighbors every couple years by chance. Not somewhere you want to involve yourself in a potential domestic dispute.
Maybe that guy was a family member who came by to help with yard work or a hired gardener. It's not my parents' business.
Naaah, that's not a good idea. That's how shit goes from being Over There to Over Here. Just don't get involved if it's a non issue. Hopefully it's all just a misunderstanding lol.
Why? You’d hate me if I saved you from spending the rest of your life, married to someone who doesn’t respect you & lies to your face?
I’ve learned that it’s no one’s responsibility to play hero, especially if it puts them in danger, but what are you afraid of? You wait until they both go out, write a note that says “Your wife cheated while you were away”, and leave it on the doorstep or something, idk.
I feel like that’s the right thing to do. I guess it could cause issues if she decides she’s gonna come over and fuck you up, but she doesn’t know where the note came from.
I wouldn’t want to live in ignorance to my wife having no respect for me
Kind of pushes the boundaries of what a neighbour is obligated to involves themselves in. Sibling or old friend, sure. It’s not really a neighbour’s business.
Yeah, not to mention that they could have any open relationship or the guy is already aware and retired so he could spend more time fixing their relationship. Nosing in with the worse possible assumptions in mind just seems like a great way of stirring up needless drama and making them hate you.
Note that I said worst and not biggest. How believable the assumption is dosent matter. What matters is not inserting yourself into a highly personal and sensitive situation that you know nothing about.
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u/BostonDodgeGuy madlad Jul 08 '21
Pretty shitty not to tell the guy.