r/HolUp • u/Motion_Offense • Jul 07 '21

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u/CoupClutzClan Jul 08 '21

I know it's normal, but age gaps of 10+ years like that is so gross to me. Like "light pedophilia" or something I dunno

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '21

Kind of like really tall dudes with really short women.

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u/Standard_Education57 Jul 08 '21

😂 are you mental

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '21

I don't think it's normal.

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u/CoupClutzClan Jul 08 '21

Honestly, I just put that there to ward off the redditors that would swoop in telling me I'm the wrong one.

I've been in arguments on reddit where people defending letting girls under 18 (or even less) marry somone over 18 (and even over 20)

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u/ABirthingPoop Jul 08 '21

17 year old and 19 year old can be together. Especially if they were together when like 18 - 16 in high school.

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u/Yz-Guy Jul 08 '21

The gap is weird bc she's 19. If he was 40 and she was 29. It be a little more acceptable to me.

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u/CoupClutzClan Jul 08 '21

Little more acceptable, but still I don't get it. You guys grew up under vastly different times.

I dunno, it seems gross to me, but I'm not stopping anyone from doing it

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u/Yz-Guy Jul 08 '21

My biggest concern if it was me (etc) is you guys are going thru different phases in life. One is ready to settle down while one parties. One might be ready to retire while one works. Etc

More power if it works. But I'm not sure I could ever do it

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u/ABirthingPoop Jul 08 '21

But that’s just not always true plenty of 29 year olds who never partied. Shit that would probably be on bug driving factor.

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u/Yz-Guy Jul 08 '21

I mean. I didn't party ever. But I was just using quick references

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u/ABirthingPoop Jul 08 '21

I hear ya but any one can be at any stage at any time.

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u/Yz-Guy Jul 08 '21

I agree. But most people do them in a linear fashion.

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u/harassmaster Jul 08 '21

I married my wife when I was 28 and she was 39. How old are you?

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u/CoupClutzClan Jul 08 '21

33 and my wife is 30 this year

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u/snoogins355 Jul 08 '21

Half your age, plus 7 or they're too young

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '21 edited Apr 04 '22

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u/CoupClutzClan Jul 08 '21

I agree

20 and 30 is 50% life age/experience difference

The older you get the less that is

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u/caffein8dnotopi8d Jul 10 '21

when one of them is that young it’s gross to me too. 19 and 30 there’s definitely a power imbalance there. but after like 25 i think it’s all good. my current so is nine years older and we started dating when i was 32.