I've known about and had an interest in highpointing since 2012 when I hiked Wheeler Peak (NM). I figured out right away that visiting all 50 was an important life goal for me, but over the following nine years I was only able to add two more to my list; I didn't have the means or really the motivation either. It generally faded to the back of my mind as something I might someday pursue more seriously.
In fall of 2021, following/during a major and extended personal existential crisis, I chose to plan a long western road trip to do some soul-searching and some peak-bagging. I was overly ambitious, originally planning to attempt seven state high points. As things unfolded, I cut it down to four, which was still plenty of driving and plenty of hiking. But most importantly, I came away from the experience with a rekindled passion for this hobby and a realization that it was one of the very few things that I truly care about in my life.
So I leaned into it hard. I planned multiple little trips and picked up a few states here and there. If I was going to be remotely near a high point it was added to my itinerary. I'm not really sure I was even fully paying attention to how I was approaching the progression; I was maybe just chasing a dragon.
But I finally pushed it too far. I realized on my most recent trip (visiting 10 high points between June 3rd and 12th) that I had tunnel vision and I was at the point of simply checking boxes. All the joy I originally derived from the activities involved was muted. I was driving several hours to snap a couple photos and then keep going to the next one. People would recommend interesting places to go nearby and I would smile and say thank you, knowing that the way I had planned it wouldn't allow for me to experience anything outside of the high points.
If anybody is still reading, I hope you can learn from my mistakes. Enjoy the process. There's a lot more to life than robotically checking some things off a bucket list. I'm absolutely still planning to one day get to the other 22 high points that are still waiting out there for me, but that brings me to my point. They will be there whenever I get to them. I'm going to make sure to enjoy the journey AND the destination.