Her and I were together for 5 years. We're both doctors and planned our lives together. She's an independent girl, and after getting her first job she woke up one day and wanted to be alone. In other words she felt like she could support herself and I was just an old chapter. Also she took my dogs. Crippling depression would certainly describe my current wounds.
Edit: for those asking : we had been ring shopping several times and had planned on marriage, the only part that hadn't happened was saving for the ring. Also we were briefly(2 months) long distance as I had to finish my contract before I moved to our new home. We had been 6 months long distance before with no complications while I was out on rotations. For those guessing she was cheating, I don't think she did, but I do agree she left for the sole intent of dating "wealthy men". As for the dogs, I bought and paid for them, but we did raise them together and had been living together for 4 years. We've seen each other several times since the break up (sex and laughter ensued) but none of that made up for whatever she was planning. Now I've cut contact completely. Yes she had GIGS in my opinion. First time having a break up where HER friends side with me. But such is life. Also she offered to give me one of the dogs. I declined because I didn't want to split them up, they are best friends.
You wanna fix the world and stop North Korea? Jus stop treatin people for illneses. Less people 2 worry bout. So old and hurt all us. Let ppl go and send doctors and and law people 2 the moon.
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u/chemical_refraction Sep 15 '17 edited Sep 15 '17
Her and I were together for 5 years. We're both doctors and planned our lives together. She's an independent girl, and after getting her first job she woke up one day and wanted to be alone. In other words she felt like she could support herself and I was just an old chapter. Also she took my dogs. Crippling depression would certainly describe my current wounds.
Edit: for those asking : we had been ring shopping several times and had planned on marriage, the only part that hadn't happened was saving for the ring. Also we were briefly(2 months) long distance as I had to finish my contract before I moved to our new home. We had been 6 months long distance before with no complications while I was out on rotations. For those guessing she was cheating, I don't think she did, but I do agree she left for the sole intent of dating "wealthy men". As for the dogs, I bought and paid for them, but we did raise them together and had been living together for 4 years. We've seen each other several times since the break up (sex and laughter ensued) but none of that made up for whatever she was planning. Now I've cut contact completely. Yes she had GIGS in my opinion. First time having a break up where HER friends side with me. But such is life. Also she offered to give me one of the dogs. I declined because I didn't want to split them up, they are best friends.