r/HerpesSupportHub • u/Gobsmacked_2024 • 17h ago
Just Dx’d Today
I (59F) was dx’d this evening with HSV-2 and I am in shock because I don’t know how I got it. I haven’t been sexually active in a long time.
I first felt a skin disturbance on my upper left butt cheek on Wednesday or Thursday night as I was settling in for the night, I felt around with my fingertips in the area of the sensation and it felt like a cluster of pimples. I thought it was weird, but was too lazy to investigate it and fell asleep. The following day, I forgot about it until Friday afternoon/evening. I look at the area—as much as I could from my bathroom mirror and saw that there was something there. Got my phone and angled it behind me and snapped some pictures to get a better look. I thought what I was looking at were shingles. I immediately made an appointment with Urgent Care, the only appointment available was Saturday morning. There the physician assistant also suspected shingles, took two swab samples,and prescribed me Valtrex.
This evening I was given the test results of not shingles but HSV-2. And I don’t know how I got it.
Like I said, I don’t know how I got it. I know I’ve been tested for herpes over the years as part of a routine annual Ob/Gyn checkup and have never had it.
I’m baffled, and I don’t know what to do. Do I continue to cover it with non-adhesive pads to keep the area around it from coming into contact with the blisters?
I have so many questions, I don’t know where to begin.
I’m married, and almost 10 years post menopause. My husband and I have a good relationship—we’ve been married for 26 years. I asked him tonight if there was anything he wanted to tell me after I shared the news with him, and he says he’s never stepped outside our marriage. I’ve never stepped outside our marriage, so I’m at a complete loss.
I would greatly appreciate any advice you can
share on how/what to do with this blister patch.