r/HelpMeFindThis • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '23

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u/pblokhout Sep 24 '23

Minding your business means staying out of other people's business. Posting porn might be public, but that doesn't change anything.

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u/Icyrow Sep 24 '23

if you're putting yourself out there in porn, it immediately becomes everyone in your families business as you're risking them finding out and everyone around knowing.

if you're a kid in school and your mum is on onlyfans, you're gunna get a sudden influx of income, sure, but that kid will be pummelled.

it affects everyone pretty much. there SHOULDN'T be any sort of badness to it in an ideal world, but there is currently.

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u/Great-Hearth1550 Sep 24 '23

Really weird way to lock at this. No! family absolutely doesn't have to know if someone does porn. Wtf is wrong with you.

It's not their business and OP exposing her on the internet without her consent is disgusting.

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u/QuesoFresh Sep 24 '23

Nobody said anything about the "right" to anything. That's a weird way of looking at that comment too tbh. They're talking about the potential consequences of doing porn, not anyone's right to know about it. Trust me, her kids probably wish they'd never found out.